Me too, in many ways, so I do relate. Many times when I pray, I say, I’m a God’s orphan. Don’t worry! He’ll not leave us alone and help us. Look at this place, how lucky we are! 
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Dear Plutorising, I am so pleased to hear that he had a moment at the end to express his love for you. I was worried he wouldn’t have the chance. My wife’s hugs at her end will stay with me for ever. Thinking of you today 
Wishing you strength
Tom
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So sorry for your loss, Plutorising. I was wondering how you were. Isn’t it such a sad thing to witness, they are going and we have to stay behind, all the while feeling so helpless.
My husband couldn’t say anything for 3 days before he passed. Was asleep all the time and then just drifted away. There was no last words or I love you….
I’m so glad your partner knew that his team won. That’s a lovely memory for you now, to bring you comfort at this awful time.
Thinking of you xx
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So sorry for the loss of your partner, and for all the pain and suffering both of you had to go through in the recent past. Thinking of you today and wishing you moments of calm in the midst of this pain
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Dear Plutorising. I am so sorry for your loss and the pain you are going through. We are all here for you LJ
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I am so sorry for your loss. Just because you know that it is going to happen does not make things any easier.
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Dear Plutorising. My deepest condolences for your loss, may our Lord Jesus give you strength during such a difficult time, ..the angels in heaven are rejoicing the new arrival of your loved one, I will be praying for you, God bless you.
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This is a beautiful condolence, Lucy… super positive!
Janka
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You have to believe they knew.
My husband was asleep for days .I try and take comfort that he may not have known.
But I know he loved me and I loved him
I’m coming up for 3 months and it’s the toughest one yet.
Thinking of joining breavement groups because people just don’t get it
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I totally get it. Everything is new .a new you didn’t choose.
I’m quite shocked at how weird I feel when I do go into a group setting.
I know now that my thoughts jump around so I’m keeping quiet now before I speak (that’s not me at all)
Some days are just harder than others I did a phased return .but I also know that full time is two much
Best of luck . Be kind to yourself.
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Yeah it really is. I have now had to say goodbye to my dog and struggling so much so off sick again and feel a failiure
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Hi Chucky, of course you aren’t a failure, the pain of losing your your loved one doesn’t go after such a short space of time . When we are suffering from a bereavement anything bad that happens brings us to our knees because we are broken to start off with and the death of your dog at the best of times would have affected you deeply. I hope you keep posting as it helps to talk about your feelings
Wishing you all the strength you will need
Tom
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Thank you yes I will try as it does help
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Good night Chucky, I hope you have a peaceful sleep tonight
Wishing you all the strength you need
Tom
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Good morning Chucky, how are you feeling today? I hope you manage to sleep last night. I hope this week is more peaceful for you
Wishing you all the strength you will need. All the best
Tom
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Hi i managed some sleep and have some medication from the dr to try and help thibgs
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Hi Chucky, I am glad you manage to sleep. Try and look after yourself. I found walking a great help to reduce the cortisol levels and aid sleep.
Wishing you all the best
Tom
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Thank you
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