Just trying to get through the best I can each day. I’m meeting my boss on Sunday before I go back on 5th Feb. I know work will be a distraction but I hope I can get through it x
Just try and stay strong my wife past away in November it dosent feel real have u spoken your doctor when I spoke to mine she said your in early stage of grif at the moment they say after first 3 month the when it’s best to get counciling
sorry to hear that, hope you feel better soon.
No I haven’t spoken to my doctor I’m just trying to deal with things the best I can. I don’t think counselling is for me I find it hard to open up to people. X
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Hello Debbie
I don’t know you but have been following your posts and I just wanted to wish you luck for your return to work on Monday. I am sure it’s daunting (I’m retired, so I don’t have to face that). I think once the dreaded first day is over, you will feel better. I hope so anyway.
Good luck!
Thank you my boss messaged me tonight and he told the children I was coming back to work on Monday and that really cheered me up. I love working with children it’s my passion and I know I make a difference to a lot of children always having a smiley face and making their time in school happy x
They all cheered when he told them I was coming back 
Told you it’ll be fine!! Those little ones will have missed you.
Oh that’s lovely! Bless them. I went back to work on Thursday last week and I was absolutely dreading it. It wasn’t just going in and seeing everyone but the last time I got ready to go was when Alan collapsed. I literally thought I was going to keel over when I was getting ready on Thursday morning . But once that was over and I got to work itself it was nowhere near as bad as I expected. Everyone was really kind and genuine. And they are organising some counselling for me in work time and starting next week. I can’t believe that: I’m so grateful.
I wish you all the very best tomorrow. Much love x
Thank you so much x