Sorry for your loss, on the 26th it will have been 5 months and still feels like it happened today, but like you said one day at a time,thank you for the message, I have not clue how to deal with this, I’m just existing.
Hope you had a good day x
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Bad day, crashed my car on way to work, skidded on icy road, hit another car, limped car back home, and worked at home, car collected, waiting to find out about courtesy car as need to work. So tired of everything going wrong, wished the crash had been worse at least I wouldn’t be here dealing g with all this shit x
I know how you feel. I visited my wife at the undertakers on Sunday and crashed my car into a bridge after loosing control on an icy road, it’s a write off. I now have a loan car, but all the hassle just adds to the pain of loosing our partner. So sorry for both your loss and hassle just when you don’t need it.
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So sorry you had a bad day. It’s done don’t beat yourself up about it. It was just a shit day pick yourself up you can do this big hug x
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I don’t know you but your post made me sad. I am so sorry for everything that happened. Hope things improve for you soon. Please try to stay positive however hard it may be.
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Sorry for what happened to you, and with such bad timing. I just wanted to tell you I feel for you and wish you better days.
Thank you for your kind words.
Sorry to hear that, thank you for your message, helped a lot, not having a good day.
Thank you, trying to, but sometimes I have just had enough.
Thank you, just really hard some days.
@Antonbw. I know from experience how hard it gets. Even now, nearly four years after my husband died, I don’t feel whole. I have really changed in the way I think and feel. We were married for 57 years and were so happy together.
I have a lovely family, including grandchildren, all living locally, who all love me and visit regularly. I am so lucky in that respect, but I feel even more guilty for still being so unhappy inside.
I am trying to look after myself because the family would worry if I didn’t! I must admit though, I do resort to a cheese sandwich sometimes when I should really be eating a proper meal, but there it is!
Take care!
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Thank you for your kind words.
Don’t lose hope, you are not the only one going through this pain. I come back to an empty house, when I used to come back to the sound of “hello love”, it’s heartbreaking when I come back to an empty house now. It’s heartbreaking when I have no one to share my thoughts and to relate everyday things to, losing someone is just painful and the memories of them running through your mind are unrelenting and you wonder why they are not still there with you. You know they are gone, but your brain still holds memories of them. This is what you should tap into, no matter how painful, there is a reason why we create memories. Let yourself remember your loved one, the funny times, the good times, even the bad times, because it is all life, your life, with your loved one. Remember her, that’s what she would want. You are not alone…
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Thank you, your words are both comforting and helpful. The memories are all that are keeping me going at the moment, but they hurt as much as they comfort, I cannot get her out of my thoughts, I cannot function, I have no motivation no drive, no passion for life anymore.
Hello, I still feel the same sometimes, but I push through and I know it’s hard and everything that reminds you of her will hurt right now. I’m not going to say that time is a great healer, because from experience it’s not. But please don’t despair, human nature dictates that you will recover from this in your own time and in your own way. Thinking of you…x
Hi how are you x
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Sorry not good, down x
Same had couple of bad days and have got a stinking cold x
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I know how u are feeling I lost my soul mate the love of my life last year she was only 36 it s so hard without here here I don’t know how I’m doing it I’m just trying to stay strong just try and stay strong because our loved ones will want us to keep fighting and trying our best every day