I’m so sorry you’re having a bad day Sheila. It doesn’t get any easier does it?
Words can’t wipe away your tears, hugs won’t ease your pain, but hold on to your memories because forever they’ll remain.
This has made me cry again. Lost the love of my life 4 months ago. I can’t accept he’s gone, each day doesn’t get easier but harder. Hope he knows I miss him so much xx
I wish, I wish upon a star for my dreams to carry me to where you are.
To hear your voice or sense your touch, to feel you near would mean so much.
I know you’re never far away and that you’re with me every single day.
So I’m wishing now with all my might that you’ll come to me in my dreams tonight.
Kos
I’m so sorry for your loss
We all hope our loved ones knew that we loved them
I think they do
I hope they are in heaven looking down on us
Giving us the strength to carry on
They are in a better place than us
Not having to deal with this awful grief
Let’s hope
Xx
I’m afraid we are all broken
To loose someone that you loved so much it so hard
But on the other side we were lucky to experience that kind of love
Some people never do
Xx
Perfect description for our pain. Just not sure how we go one. I do not look beyond the day I wake up to.
My husband died in a road traffic accident. His friends cleared the garage for me today. Although I hate the motorbike, I still cannot help but feel that another piece of him has been taken away.
This is so sweet, brought more tears today. I would love to feel a presence, to ease my loneliness and heartache, I don’t know how I am ever going to be able to get through the days ahead. X
I know how you feel. It’s not just the past snd the memories but also the future you could have had. Anything that belonged to my partner is so precious xx
Yes the future is now gone. I wonder why we worked so hard. At one point I took two jobs when the kids were growing up. We were so looking forward to a wonderful retirement and that has been snatched from us.
As the heading suggests I will love him forever, just not sure that I can stand years ahead without him.
It’s almost 17 weeks for me now. I don’t think it gets better, we just find ways of coping.
I feel like I muddle along through each day, but their isn’t really a meaning to what I’m doing.
Some days I do smile and remember him without tears but usually have a mini breakdown every day for about an hour when I feel as if I will never stop crying and my heart is breaking.
The hollow empty feeling in my stomach never seems to go away.
Just had my cry for today which is why I am here, it helps me so much knowing I’m not alone and others understand.
I feel guilty thinking like that because its as if I’m glad that others are going through this and I’m not alone.
I know we know that’s not the case and would not wish this on anyone, but I just know coming on here has helped so much, so wherever you are on this journey keep coming here so we can all try to help each other the best we can.
Love and hugs Jacky xxxx
I know exactly what you mean. Although we have family and friends to support us their grief is either different or they do not really fully comprehend the enormous pain associated with the loss of a partner. I certainly did not appreciate the agonising pain suffered by my mam for certain until now.
My husband was killed in a RTA in September. I still have the inquest hanging over me and then have to deal with probate as we did not make a will. We were too busy planning our retirement to think of things like that.
Tears flow on a daily basis, still scream his name - I think in the hope that he can hear my pain. The grief is made worse as I do not get the sense of his being close to me or watching over me. Just feel the emptiness and the deafening silence.