Hi Lynne,
It’s funny how our loved ones possessions take on more meaning when they are no longer here. I have put things like dad’s glasses and his hat into memory box. I took the blanket that was on dads bed at home into the hospice when he was in his final days and since he passed away I sleep with it on the bottom of my bed. I even took it away with me over Christmas as It brings me some comfort. One of the things I found quite odd since he passed away is all of his personal belongings that he loved like his computers that are no longer being used. It still just feels like he was ripped away from us.
I always think of dad when I wake up in the morning and when falling asleep and this morning my phone had done one of those memory photo collections just of him which caught me off guard. I like to look at photos but if unexpected it can be upsetting.
I think the flask is perfect and not weird at all. It was a lovely gift and a reminder of things that he loved so what better place for your dad’s ashes.
I know what you mean about people not responding. I sent my brother one of my usual missing dad messages last night and not had reply yet. I know he doesn’t mind but think he just doesn’t know what to say as it’s the same thing over and over.
I hope you have a peaceful day.
Xx