Hi I have posted quite a few times on this forum and I don’t seem to get much back other than the moderators. I just wondered if anyone else had this problem or is it just me?
I do really struggle after loosing my mum and sister and I would really appreciate a little support/ advice or even just someone to talk to.
Thanks for listening, take care
Hi @Stargirl93, I’m sorry that no one has replied to you 
I can only relate for a loss of a parent as I lost my dad and my little boy but please feel free to message back if you want to chat, thinking of you and sending you lots of love and strength lorraine xxxx
I’ll talk with you as I’m in exactly the same position…every day is bad but today is horrendous
Hi Lorraine89 I’m sorry to hear that you have suffered loss! I know how hard it can be, it would be lovely to chat to you sending love and hugs xxxx
Hi Patrick, thanks for posting, I’m sorry to hear your having a bad time I can completely relate
It’s unbelievable, the loneliness today is crippling and everyone just living their lives seemingly and me here crying all the time full of fear of the future amongst many other emotions
Thankyou for you kind words @Stargirl93 it’s much appreciated 
and @patrick1 the same goes to you too xxx
@patrick1 I know exactly how you feel it’s a very lonely process grief! You always feel like your the only one going through it when that’s never the case. Try to surround yourself with loved ones and friends, take care
Hi Stargirl, so sorry for your loss, it really is horrific when our loved ones pass away. I have found this site helps, just putting into words how you feel can give you a sense of “ belonging “. Or it does for me. I hope you carry on here if it helps, I guess we are all so heartbroken that post’s get overlooked. Not sure how much I can offer but please feel free to speak with me, I am apparently a good listener., or I was! Sending love and hugs and hope you find some peace. Joe x
Dear @Stargirl93
I am sorry to read that you feel you you are not getting much back from this site. That is very disappointing to hear. I am so sorry for your loss of your mum and sister.
Sue Ryder has a newly launched self help service called Grief Self-Help Service which has useful information to help you understand and cope with your bereavement and grief.
You also can connect with members here on the Community by typing in the search bar.
There is an organisation called Shout which is a free confidential, 24/7 text support service on 85258 or alternatively there is the Samaritans on 116 123 you can talk to.
I hope this will help you and I apologise once again that you have encountered lack of response from this site. The site is manned by volunteers but not 24/7. If you would like more information or we can be of further help, please email online.community@sueryder.org.
Please do not be put off from reaching out to us.
Take care.
Pepsi
@joeb40 thank you so much for your response, that’s very kind of you to offer an ear. It would be lovely to chat 
sending hugs back x
No one is ever alone here as we all know what eachother are going through, I’m honestly here for you all and all of you on here I say a big thankyou as you have all helped more than you will ever know and I’m forever grateful 
xxxx
@Lorraine89 such kind words we all need to hear! Keep talking guys and we will all get through the pain x
Hello again Stargirl, I hope your day has been bearable, such emotions we all now face makes normal tasks an uphill struggle. Do you have any family or close friends that you can turn to, my sister for me has been great, she lives some distance but I can call her any time and she listens and offers advice. Most of the time I am not up to doing what she suggests but I get what she says when she tells me about finding some kind of purpose and structure. I did manage to go to work for a few hours but the job I loved has become alien to me and I am anxious about any kind of responsiblity, weird how the brain works I also use an audio relaxation App for sleeping which has helped me get a few hours every night, don’t know if that might be worth a try for you.
Sending love
Joe x
You’re a good person Lorraine!!! Like everyone so far that I’ve communicated with here …we’re all in the same storm but in different boats!!!
@joeb40 hello, today has been okay I have good and bad days which I’m sure is normal, on a bad day everything seems so hard even just the easy stuff that normally takes no effort at all seems so difficult!
I do have a few close friends and I have an amazing fiancé that is so supportive.
I don’t work at the moment because I suffer with mental health which makes the whole grieving process much more intense.
Take care, x
Thankyou @patrick1, if we can all support eachother it may helps us to not feel so alone and bring us all a little comfort even if it is for a little while xxxx