@Deb5 i don’t think I will ever forgive him if he doesn’t let me see my first grandchild. That would break me all over again. I never harbour grudges but that really would be a step too far considering how I have always nurtured him and been there for him . I cannot understand why he’s changed from a loving son to an absolute monster, in the space of a few months 
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@Ladysuisei6 I am so sorry that you going through this with your son. Grief is hard enough without this on top. Could you write your son a letter or is there someone in the family who could talk to your son. Maybe he is in the angry stage of grief and taking it out on you or just can’t handle your grief. Take it slow and keep reaching out. Take care and big hugs xx
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@Hazel.1966 yes I been advised by Samaritans to write him a letter . I don’t know if he’d bother to read it - he’s not responding to my messages. It’s very difficult to get hold of him because he’s switched his phone off . He did say he’d speak to me on Saturday (!) but I think he underestimates the loneliness of nobody to talk to for a whole week. I can’t understand his cruelty towards me. My dad’s tried to call him but he won’t pick up . God knows if we had an emergency. He’d never know . I never in a million years thought I’d be on a grief forum discussing how my son has let me down and isn’t there for me anymore. It’s like a bad dream
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I know exactly what you mean 
how our lives have blinking changed hey !!! Without our loved one here. Write him a letter and a week is a long time in a widows life i know what you mean i dunno why kids are like this now … they just shut you down dont they … its a sad world out there …
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So are mine !! Xx
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1st pic - our wedding in Bali 1999
2nd & 3rd pics - our 20 year vow renewal in Las Vegas.
I am blessed to have known & loved my husband for almost 25 years.
He served in the Falklands at 17 & got shot so I guess he got his second chance at life.
I miss him every minute of the day🤷🏼♀️
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I will never forget this afternoon / evening
Renewed our vows after 20 years married, in a lovely intimate Las Vegas chapel with close friends & family💖
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Why did he have to go so soon??
Breaks my heart every time I look at our pics🤷🏼♀️
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Joined after losing my dear husband in May and have been looking for something like this but didn’t find it until now.The thread is from 2023 but it really fills my need to honor Carlos in this manner. Our last Christmas together will be cherished forever. Love is eternal♥️
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Treasure those memories x
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Lovely photo of you both, you both look so happy.
Thank you for sharing xx
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My lovely hubby suddenly passed away 15/4/24 , he was my everything, he was more than my “other half “ he was my two thirds ! Together 24 years and got 17 months of marriage after we secretly “eloped “ to Gretna Green
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And the absence is palpable and unbearable.
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She looks so pretty. I am so sorry for your loss.
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Met David at 19, fell head over heels and married him just 10 months later, for 44 years. Only man I have ever loved. Lost too soon at 66 from sepsis on 5 October 2024. . Miss him, miss us.
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My Stephen. We met in 2004, and had an amazing nearly 20 years together before he passed away just over a year ago aged 48. Miss you every day my darling 
xxxx
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my hubby, we were married 49 yrs
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