.my beautiful partner of 22yrs
Cheryl.Taken from us a year today.
Still i struggle to cope with life without her.
What a beautiful smile. Looks a happy lady. Just so sad isn’t it…
A couple of months before my lovely husband suddenly passed away. Celebrating our 25th wedding anniversary. John was 53 ,
Lovely photo, it’s so hard looking at these but important we remember them and they say photo’s say a thousand words
I know how you feel, my partner passed 5 mths after our last holiday. It was sudden, out of the blue, no signs, symptoms, massive heart attack. I keep going over and over if I missed something, surely you can’t just die without a symptom? He was fit, healthy, didn’t smoke and drank occasionally. He was stressed at work as he was self employed but outwardly he seemed very laid back. I wish I knew why
@Sarlyn I know how you feel as lost my husband suddenly the week before Christmas. I got him down the doctor’s as he had lost weight and sleeping more but sadly too late. He died of a massive rear saddle pulmonary embolism and kidney cancer which had spread to his other kidney. He died not know he had cancer and put his pain down to a previous fall 20 months previously. I feel so guilty that I didn’t notice that he was so ill. He was working till the day before. So sorry to hear about your husband as well. Such a shock with no closure xx
Childhood sweetheart, lover, wife, mother to our children and my best friend. She qualified as a nurse in 1966 and worked in the NHS until she was 65, returned to work at 72 to cover for Covid. When she needed the NHS the most, they weren’t there for her. Died 16th April 2022. We were an ‘item’ for 56 years, married for three months short of 50. I’m glad she went before me, she was far too good a person to suffer the pain I’m suffering.
Yeh honey same with me - my husband kept putting his symptoms down to other things ! Its just a typical man thing sadly i was too late with my husband too missing him so much over this bank holiday. My daughter did invite me to hers yesterday so guess that’s progress at least … had my granddaughter sleep over too xx
I used to work in NHS too and they are really pretty pathetic these days !! I dunno whats happened but they gone down the pan !!! God bless xx
Hi i lost my husband in January this year i cannot live without him i am broken i miss him so much it does not get any eaiser .tracey
So sorry this has happened to you. The early days are so horrendous, dealing with the shock of your loss and trying to come to terms with what’s happened.
Keep talking on here, we all understand how you feel. Take it minute by minute
Thank you its so hard i miss him so much .tracey
I am not unlike you. I lost my husband in december … miss him all the time and have some terrible days when the loss is so hard to bear ! I totally get you … just rest and look after yourself as best you can … we just have to ride the waves xx
@Joseph24 I am so sorry for what’s happened to you. I lost my darling husband in January too and each day I miss him more and more. I was told to take little steps by generous people on here who are a little further along the road, and that’s what I try and do. For me, there are now some better days but the tears are always not far away.
I do feel incredibly lucky to have had 46 years with my man, many here have not had that time sadly, and in some ways I am glad that its me and not him that is having to go through this grief. I think he would not have coped, and emotionally shut down and absorbed himself in his work. So I feel I am bearing this pain for the both of us. Often I wonder if he is somewhere missing me, as much as I so miss him. But in lots of ways he is still with me, I see and hear him in my children and I feel his presence in every room. It is so incredibly hard, its the hardest thing I have ever done, but I am determined to survive this, and you will too, with the help and support of the amazing people here. Sending hugs and love xxx
He does look kind & cheeky you are right
I didn’t even know about this gallery either so thank you xx
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My gorgeous Bry
Thanks ! Yeh he was he was getting quite poorly in this pic but he still has that cheeky smile … btw your pic not uploaded … they put instructions up for me just before my husbands pic xxx