It’s funny because when I had the expensive reading yesterday she didn’t know my mam had died until I told her. When my mam apparently came through the I was told she is free from addictions and mental illness now. I was like she died of cancer, she didn’t have any addictions or mental illness. I thought to myself what an odd thing to say. When I listened back to the twenty minutes I had I realised why she had guessed that my mam had addictions or mental illness. It was because of something I’d corrected her about a little while before.
Basically she told me my grandfather had came through, he spoke about a disconnect with my mother, that we weren’t as close as I’d like. Well she’s dead so I guess not
I told her at that point my mam was dead. Later my mam apparently came through and was free from addiction and mental illness. She died of cancer not addiction or mental health. When I listened to the reading back I realised why she’d guessed addiction or mental health. She’d told me she saw me living at home for a long time because me and my mam were so close. That was way off, I told her that and elaborated a little too much and that’s what I think made her guess mental illness or addictions.
Even after she cancelled the reading I was there thinking to myself what if the mental illness meant because my mam was hallucinating because of the cancer drugs, what if the addictions were her prescription meds and chemo. It was just me trying to make something fit when it didn’t fit at all.
I really hope one day I’ll have a reading and just “know” but for now I’m convinced most of them are frauds.
It’s funny because I’m not holding out much hope for Mondays reading. She asked me in advance for a photo of who I wanted to connect with so her guides could find him. Reluctantly I sent her a photo and she asked me if he was a relation or a friend? I told her I was reluctant to tell her because I’d hope he would be able to tell her.
Do you think I’m being unfair not telling her who he is?
My worry is I’ll say he’s my partner and she’ll say all the usual stuff that applies to people who have lost their partner
You have to laugh don’t you? My sister went to see a fortune teller years ago. He told her she would be coming into money very soon and it would be a lot of money, so much money that she would be able to open up her own cafe.
we were all laughing and she said she wouldn’t mind opening a cafe. It’s literally nothing she had ever thought about until he told her that. Also she got told off because she has anxiety, she got it into her head that her husband was going to die because the only way she would come into big money would be through life insurance. She was that worried she kept phoning him asking if her husband was going to die they told her to go away and forget about it.
Well her reading was well over 20 years ago, she’s always skint, works in Tesco and her husband is still very much alive
The only reason she went to him was because someone on this morning phoned in and he apparently told this woman to pull out her fridge as she had a piece of glass under it. Apparently she checked and she did, if they are on day time tv it makes you think they must be true.
@LostLil no i don’t think you are being unfair. If she can really contact our lost loved one’s. She will know who he is to you. Is it
usual for them to ask for a photo ? I think you are being cautious and there is nothing wrong with that. I do believe there are genuine mediums out there. But i also believe there are a lot of fakes. Good luck though. x
Hi lost lil can i just ask if bess i think her name was was not happy with her reading also.Im just not sure whether to have it done or not .i think face to face would be the more positive option
I actually sent her team an email and sent her a WhatsApp message on the number she did my reading off telling her what I thought. I don’t expect to get a reply but I detailed my reading in them and explained how completely wrong she had been and how I could tell she was just guessing then trying to elaborate on any correct guesses
I told her how I’m struggling to even live since he’s gone and that even though I’m having a refund this goes far beyond the money.
I told her she’s basically praying on vulnerable people going through the worst times of their life and that I’m convinced the reading she posted on YouTube was a hoax after my experience with her. I told her if it really is just a money making scam then it’s disgusting because in no other profession could you get away with praying on vulnerable people for monetary gain.
I don’t expect a response but I was absolutely gutted after my reading so I had to say something
We’ll done you for getting back to her and telling her what you thought. These despicable people pray on the vulnerable and I remember long ago when my brother died at six years old my mum being approached by all sorts od people who said they could contact him. Thankfully she never have them the time of day. What do I think ? I honestly don’t know. My husband died two years ago suddenly in bed beside me and there’s not a minute of any day I don’t think of him and wish he was by my side. How I would love to contact him just to tell him how much we all miss him. I did attend a psychic afternoon where certain people were picked out but it was very generic and what was said could have applied to all of us. Whatever path you take I hope you find the answers you’re looking for.
I had to. It really played on my mind. My head is scrambled with it all and people like that really don’t help. I highly doubt I’ll get a response but if I do I’ll let you know
How awful that people approached your mam to connect with your brother
What goes through peoples minds other than pound signs
That’s so tragic. I feel the same with my OH, I just want him to know how loved he is and how much I miss him. I want to know he is still around in some way but honestly after my disastrous readings I don’t think he is. I’ve contacted two more mediums but have to wait a couple of months for readings with them. If after them I still don’t have anything concrete and I still haven’t had any signs then I need to stop chasing something that just isn’t there.
I guess whatever happens after death I’ll join him one day. I’ll either join him in nothingness or I’ll see him again on the other side.
Hi Lostlil…I think that is the way do it …mediums are clearly suspect, even though I think there are many genuine ones…maybe try visiting a spiritualist church as an observer…I intend to do that…and see how you feel after a while… but just because your experience with mediums so far has not given you the comfort you need, doesn’t mean there isn’t anything after we go… Maybe look into the science evidence rather than the medium route…there is a lot to give you some comfort if you do some research
Told you, there is probably a good reason why we can’t contact the other side. If you think about it, it makes sense. It would be weird if people could just contact the dead all the time.
I wonder if people who are married to mediums know they are frauds? I look at Matt Fraser with his wife and wonder if she’s in on it, if he is lying?
No…I’ve never visited a medium. Although I deffo think there is something after this life I’m very unsure of the concept of mediums…hence why I intend to visit a spiritualist church to see what happens. There have been a couple of medium contributers to this forum and what they said I believe was realistic…as far as what I think is the reality. It may not be what we necessarily want to hear but whatever is the reality is better than what you seem to have been given so far…which does seem very suspect.
How do you find these mediums ? I go through counselling because work pay for me and there is one there called Diane Lazarus but when I phoned the number I had her secretary’s reply recorded so couldn’t ask any questions , saying completely booked till Jan 2024 !! I’ve read her book though and he’s seems legit !!! Minefield I suppose but if they are asking so much money and question it I think , however we are all vulnerable , sad and desperate to hear from the person we are grieving so so badly for . It’s 4 months for me on Tuesday but spent till 3 am last night screaming into pillows. !! It never ends xx
for getting back to her and telling her what you thought. These despicable people pray on the vulnerable and I remember long ago when my brother died at six years old my mum being approached by all sorts od people who said they could contact him. Thankfully she never have them the time of day. What do I think ? I honestly don’t know. My husband died two years ago suddenly in bed beside me and there’s not a minute of any day I don’t think of him and wish he was by my side. How I would love to contact him just to tell him how much we all miss him. I did attend a psychic afternoon where certain people were picked out but it was very generic and what was said could have applied to all of us. Whatever path you take I hope you find the answers you’re looking for.
