Hi Edwin, I love the white feather by Eileen’s bench. I usually ask George to show me white feathers as a sign he is still with me. When I go for a walk I tend to see lots of them, not just on the floor but sometimes up higher in bushes. I often see so many that I end up laughing to myself and say to George ‘okay I get the message’. Sometimes the sceptical side of me says they were probably always there and I just didn’t notice them before, but I am determined to believe that someone as vibrant and clever as my lovely George can just die and that be it, there must be something more than just this life, I really hope so because I am so looking forward to seeing him again. Continue to enjoy your signs x
should read ‘can’t just die and that be it’,
Here here Debra27. My sentiments entirely. Love to you x
Not sure whether I’ve had a sign or it’s just my guilty conscious. Today I made an appointment for a man to come and see my husbands three guitars, two of which he played regularly. One on stage and the other to practise with at home. As soon as I had made arrangement I felt physically sick. I had, had a reasonably good day today but suddenly I felt terrible, almost ill, lightheaded. I went to the cemetery in the near dark and told Brian what I had done. Somehow I know he will let me know what he want’s me to do. Whether to keep or sell. I will have them put on stands and make them a feature in the living room. I will soon know what is to happen but I believe in fate, but one rude word from the man and he will be showed the door pronto. My Brian loved those instruments for years and I’ve a feeling I’ve made a terrible mistake.
Yes, I see an awful lot of white feathers. Most are of the downy, puffy, secondary type, often the evidence of a confrontation between prey and predator.
The feather this morning was a primary, and was standing upright almost as though it had been “planted” though the quill was not stuck in the ground. It was sufficiently striking to catch my eye as I drove past, and to make me stop and get out of the dogmobile to have a look. (I park up down that track in the profile photo, which goes off to the left behind Eileen, just by that blossoming tree)
Pattidot, you’ve not done anything that you can call a mistake. You just made an appointment. You still have the guitars. See how you go when the man visits. You’ll get your answer then, if not before, whether or not you should go ahead with the sale of them.
Trust your gut and your anticipated ‘sign’ from your husband. All is well for now. You just made an appointment!
Love to you x
PS let me know the end result please x
I’m finding it quite strange that my feather cushions have decided to place an embargo on any being released. I haven’t seen any on the floor for ages. Going back a few weeks it was almost daily. Maybe my scepticism has had a reaction. I wouldn’t normally have thought anything of it… there’s that “normally” word again, where does it come from?
Oh bless…I’m sure the last thing you soulmate would want is to make you feel ill…you are going through the most traumatic time in your life. I’m sure that when your Brian feels you are strong enough ,he will come and you will feel his love for you.Dont beat yourself up you know you did your very best.
I haven’t seen any signs though I’m open minded about them and have read many interesting posts about them and if they bring comfort then that’s good.
Both before my husband died and since it has not been unusual for me to see many robins, magpies and feathers so I haven’t attached any significance to them.
That started me thinking about coincidences and trying to remember some terminology about them which if my husband were here (,if only) he would have known.
After a bit of Googling I came up with what I was thinking of the Baader-meinhof Phenomenon, there’s a link to an interesting article below.
I wonder Yorkshire Lad do you think this theory goes someway to explaning what some see as signs. You’ve probably come across it before in your wide reading .
Just wondered what you or others might think.
https://www.damninteresting.com/the-baader-meinhof-phenomenon/
I love that article. Thanks for sharing. I think I need to read it again, and again.
It reminds me of that universal truth that 73-7% of statistics are made up.
Although Baader Meinhoff, the guerilla group, are implanted in my memory I can honestly say I have never heard of their phenonemon but that’s been my loss.
Hi
I love reading these posts where some have noticed the lovely signs given by our loved ones ,trying to attract our attention.The subtle signs,feathers in unusual places ,birds or animals acting out of character,cloud formations,numbers relating to a loved ones birthday,song words heard on the radio at the moment you were thinking of them and many more,they are signs that Spirit find easier to communicate through.
Also though there are Spiritual experiences we can all receive,a ringing in the right ear when thinking or speaking with thought to your loved one,and i don’t mean tinnitus,this ringing only comes for a few moments after you have thought of your loved one,or talking about or too them.Also if you sit in stillness you may feel a light breeze come around or across you,you can feel touch,or tingling on your skin,or hair when they are close.They are energy as is everything,that’s why you can feel their presence,and that’s why electrics ,phones ,radios,can go crazy when they are around.
You may hear whispering,when no one is around,or as ive experienced,you may also hear them speak,and yes all this and much more can happen.
I know it all sounds too much to believe and that’s ok,they are all there though,and anyone can receive,it’s not a special gift given to a few.We are all born with abilities,just some of us would never think of it or develop them.xx
Sheila, here we are all talking about signs being such ephemeral things as finding feathers, spotting birds, feeling breezes and so on.
Then you upstage us all by telling us that your sign was an extractor fan fall on your head !
Totally with you Robina x
Seems your Peter didn’t do subtlety !
Hi Robina, I love reading your posts, they give such hope and confirmation that there are signs out there. I have had some that you mention. Cloud formation in the form of a face but when I looked away for a second or two and then looked back there wasn’t even a cloud let alone a face. A bee hitting me on the side of my face inside a house. Bee’s not around in December and Brian loved Bees. Heard his voice call out my name during the night. I was reading at the time and wide awake. Radio came on full blast after I had gone to bed and it hadn’t been on for days, certainly not on when I went up to bed. Electrics. When I go to talk to Brian at the cemetery I sit on a bench in the middle. I talk to Brian and ask him to come to see me. Last week a sudden breeze came straight up the middle. I couldn’t see other tree’s moving just the ones near me. Could it have been him? I laughed and called out to him just in case.
I hope you’re all putting these beautiful gifts you are receiving into your faith bucket (s). I think that’s where they are intended for!
I don’t question them. I tend to know in my heart if I’m interpreting rightly…x
On my way back from Stansted in my cab 0430 am it’s a bit of a habit now I put on smooth fm radio station which Denise listened to on at almost the same point on my return journey 3 times now her favorite song has been played just after I turn on the radio.
Hi Stevie
3 is the lowest number that forms a pattern,the triangle.When you notice signs repeating 3 times or more,in a short space of time,then it has significance.Same as a repeating dream,sometimes it’s hard to work out the message behind it,but will always have a meaning.The song that plays which is Denise’s favourite,the words of the song may also have a deeper meaning for you.I journal everything i hear and see,and i date it.Every sign holds a message personal to you.xx
Last week I was heading to the skip in the car after a big attic clear out. I like Smooth radio too and was listening to Roxette, “It must have been love…”!! Switched off the radio to speak to the guy, cleared out the car and drove off. Put radio back on. It took me a wee while to realise that the channel had jumped to TalkSport Extra, no idea how that happened and guess what - it was my husband’s station of choice! I have no explanation for that one! I do get a sense that “he’s about”, as do my daughters. It does bring great comfort. Have a good day Stevie, remember we all have two things in common on this site - huge loss and survival instinct. Cx