@Dino13 thank you.
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So sorry for your sudden loss. I lost mine so suddenly as well over 11 months ago to cardiac arrest. Almost a year on, I am still trying to get used to the idea that he is no longer by my side and it’s still so hard to believe that is the reality.
Loneliness is now the new normal in this sad and painful life without my beloved.
Take care & sending hugs to everyone x
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Its so hard isnt it ? 16 months on i still cant believe my reality either. Its so hard. The hardest thing i have ever done. I miss his voice and his love … do we ever get over this ? I dunno if we will cos it doesnt feel like it some days. Trying to make a new life for ourselves is sooo hard. A lot of people just dont understand or want to understand. Even your own family dont really get it or people who not lost their husband … its like living in a parallel universe to everybody else i find some days ;( i think the only people who truly understand are the ones on here… other people who lost their partner 
x
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It is so hard indeed! My friend told me grief is mine and mine alone no one can share unless it happens to themselves - she is so right!
Trying to rebuild new life alone is not something that any of us wants to do but we have no choice but to just get on with it and hope we will survive to the end 
Take care everyone x
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Sending so much love. My story is very similar and I’m heartbroken 