I hate Sundays too. It’s 4 weeks ago today that I last heard Andy’s voice or felt his touch. We left him in the hospital to watch the football final, smiling and so positive. My last text from him was received at 22:08, the crash call went out at 23:00 xxxx
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Sorry for your loss 
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Today has been a crying day.
It actually started yesterday. Someone was telling me about a wedding anniversary.
You can imagine how that affected me.
This afternoon, my mind seems to be taunting me by reminding of all the things
I won’t be able to do with my wonderful husband again.
Things we used to do together.
Things I would love to be able to do with him again.
Many just ordinary everyday things.
Why?
I hope you are having the best day possible.
Hugs for everyone but especially big hugs for those going through it today.
Rose xx
I will be lighting two candles very soon.
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Yes Sunday boiling hot and hotter tomorrow. Usual things like water the flowers; wash up etc.
Samey.
I spose getting used to it. Could have gone out on my own but not much incentive very triggering.
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@RoseGarden
Weekends are tough, I agree.
We had a pizza business on top of our regular jobs, that took up most weekends.
I’m glad the football is back as that at least occupies me. I’m just looking at holidays as going to get away soon as def don’t want to be at home on what would’ve been our silver wedding anniversary😥
Thankfully, a good friend is going to pet sit for my 2 furkids
Take care x
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Sorry Ginger mine is 8 weeks today. 8 weeks ago seems in spme ways ages ago , but in others it seems like yesterday. I hate Sundays i think I always will. Xxxx
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I lit this candle tonight.
For all other loved ones who have passed.
Please view it as a candle for your loved ones.
Rose xx
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I lit this candle for my darling husband.
I lost him 23 weeks ago today.
My life is empty without him.
Rose 
x
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Ty Rose its 8 weeks today for me. Xxx
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Thank you Vancouver.
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Hi Ann,its now nearly 11 months since my husband died on his birthday. Things have got worse as time has gone by. Have now been diagnosed with depression. No interest in anything and dont know what to do. Was with my husband for 54 years and feel lost and alone. I too hate weekends they drag and all i want to do is sleep. Take care. I do understand how you feel.
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I hear you Rose. A crying day for me too. Unexpected and unfamiliar reactions to things which leave me bereft and confused. Thank you for the candles. 15 weeks ago for me.
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@Ann69 So sorry for your loss. I feel exactly the same as you. Hate every day but weekends are the worst. Take care and sending hugs.
Ann
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Thinking of you xx
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If anyone ever wants to meet up for a lovely walk in the south west that would be great.
I find being outside is really good for me at this very sad time.
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Hi Emily, I’m south Devon, but happy to drive for a walk and a coffee. I’m keeping myself crazy busy at the mo (I’d sob all day long if not), so it may have to be Sept if that works for you.
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I am in Somerset and would love to go outside for a walk and meet you but I am housebound. My husband was my carer so I now have carers 3 times a day but it is still very lonely.
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I’m in Teignmouth and have been a few walks over the last 4 weeks since Andy was taken. It does help a little. My friend and I are planning on walking the coastal path to Babbacombe on the day which will be our 10th Wedding Anniversary next week.
I’d find it helpful if we could meet up at some point for a walk/chat/scream/cry, whatever is required x
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I just came on here as I have no one to talk to. Sundays are the worst. I am so alone. My husband passed away in August. Its not getting easier. Panic attacks. Chest pains. Fear of the future. How will I cope. He was everything. There is no laughter. No joy. Friends dont seem to care or reach out and dont understands. I feel so let down by the whole thing. I only have one sister in terms of family and she just goes on about what i should do for my child, her only focus is my daughter which is fine but i dont need negativity. Lonely sunday and weekend and then the reality of monday… he was my strength my rock my confidence my best pal.
They say Losing you was Hard but learning to live without you is Harder. Sending love to everyone. You are strong.
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Yes, it is very hard.
People can be very disappointing.
People on here understand and are so kind ans supportive.
Sending a big hug xx
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