Being on your own after losing someone is just downright depressing.
It sure is keith nothing seems important or matters anymore
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I donāt know anything any more. Life is a existence !
Keith68,
I understand although I am much earlier in this, but agree life now is so so depressing, and there is no end in sight.
Just the dull never ending pan interrupted by tears when the pain get too much. Donāt know what can be done to improve this Sh1T and kinky experiance
Donāt know where kinky came from but it at least made me smile
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I think it should have been ālonely ā
Its 8 weeks today since I lost my darling husband, 
the tears dont stop the pain is something I would never wish on anyone. The kinky did nake me smile 
life is bloody dam awful. Hugs Jo xx
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It made me smile too!
Everything you wrote resonates with me. I still donāt have any good days, almost 9 months in. Itās just that never-ending pain that you try so hard to cope with until you just canāt take it anymore and break down in tears. Hugs from me. 
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Its been four years since I lost my husband and I can relate to all of those signs on the list. I thought I was coping but I was existing, iāve finally admitted to myself I need help and have been referred for bereavement counselling. Iām hoping this will help. xx
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Fingers crossed for you. 
Everything about losing a loved one is so awful and we need to try whatever we can try to make it more bearable.
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sometimes I wonder when the tear will stop
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Hi hope you are ok, you will have days and moments when a thought or memory pops into your head. Itās happened to me and is totally random. We are here for you!
It is such a difficult time. You will have good and bad days but you can always find some comfort on this site.
Itās a good site, I do feel thereās a lot of genuine people on here too. I just wished I could give them a hug in real time and not online. Itās a shame there no group sessions connected to here. It could be very helpful as meeting people in a similar position does help. It always helps talking to other people that are in a similar position to you. Some one mention doing meet up, but thatās different people at different places in their life. If you have nothing in common, it fail.
It would lovely to give everyone a real hug instead of virtual hugs, i wish i lived closervto alot of you. As i dont travel due to my agrophobia xxx
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Yes, I tick all of those boxes.
Things keeping me going:
Our cat has kept me going, and he needs me
My late Mum always said a widow should make no major decisions for a year. 28 December
The Coronerās Inquest, which has been scheduled for 15th January 2023. I want to know what went wrong
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I have booked a holiday to Kos end of September - I definitely didnāt want to be at home for what wouldāve been our Silver wedding & my Birthday.
Iām actually looking forward to it - take a good book, my AirPods & my music & just chill.
Mingle & chat to others as I feel the need toš
Will be nice to cool down in the sea during the day & dress up for dinner.
Itās the simple things that make me happy
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The pain of losing my beautiful husband is unbearable seven weeks ago today but he was suffering terribly with tremendous pain for over four years with a broken back in the last couple of years he couldnāt go out in the last six months he couldnāt walk his pain was unbearable then he got a kidney infection in hospital then Covid and died my two sons are heartbroken all big on sport they used to come and see dad all the time for sport talk and it warmed my heart to see them all in his bedroom talking and watching tv now itās all gone all empty no sound of laughter no loud football tv i miss my husband so much my pain is beyond words x
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Aww Belita i am so sorry you are feeling this new unbearable pain , i lost my darling husband just over 8 weeks ago so i understand that pain its so intense, and the lonilness is unbearable. I hope soon we all find some peace and happiness again , but i fear thats a long way off. Hugs Jo xx
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I can tick every box xx
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