I just wanted to say thank you to everyone who responded to my post. It really does help reading all of your posts although its heartbreaking at the same time…so many of us and so much pain. I dont know if I’m posting correctly, I’m not familiar with the site yet. My best wishes to all xx
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I still wake up every day feeling the loss of my dad. I can’t ever imagine coming to terms with loosing my dad. Take care
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Your dad is a very special person in your life, you always miss him, sending lots of love, I miss my dad too, love him 
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Thank you so much for your kind message. I really appreciate it. Take care.
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JerryH, we’re definitely writing each other’s posts! Hang on in there.
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It’s been 13 months now since I lost my lovely husband of 43 years some days are better but that alone feeling is the worst and I miss him so much I’m bursting with grief and everyone can’t see how I’m feeling inside I still can’t believe I’m never going to see my husband again
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Hi @Ann9 i know how you feel, it’s been 4 months since my husband passed away, it’s hard to imagine how we could live without them, but it’s where we find ourselves. It’s impossible isn’t it, sending love xx
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I lost my dad back in August, & even though I have my daughter, I cry every day because I miss him so much. I have been to a few mediums seeking contact from him & my late mother. Take care
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Thank you Kathy sending hugs xx
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@Sandancer66 gosh that’s an unbelievably insensitive remark. I’m shocked someone would actually come out with that 
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Hi @Ladysuisei6 and @Sandancer66
A little while ago someone said similar to me, it went like this … ’ oh well, we all have things to deal with!’
And you won’t be surprised to know that comment made by a person who still has her husband
Love and hugs to you all 
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People seem to think you should come to terms with a loss after a relatively short amount if time. I still feel the loss of my dad every bit as much as when he passed in August. Take care of yourselfs.
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I don’t think August is very long at all actually. To still be grieving your dad now is perfectly normal in my opinion x
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I lost my husband in August 2023 and if anything I feel in more pain now than I did straight after. I think shock numbs you a bit and we have to give ourselves time and a bit of care. It is something I struggle with. Hope you are ok. Xx
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Hope you are ok too. Take care of yourself.xxx