Trying to cope with multiple deaths

[Seaneen]

Hello @Morag99,

Thank you for reaching out - I’m so sorry for all you’ve been through. That is so much loss for one person to cope with.

You are not alone. You might want to look at these threads, where other members have experienced multiple deaths. Maybe you can connect with other?

@Wethery52 shared this thread,

Multiple grief

New to all this and don’t really know if it’s going to help but hopefully it might, I lost my dad in march 2022 from pulmonary fibrosis he was only 75, nine months later dec 28th I found my mam dead on the settee, very sudden no warning, it left me and my younger brother to try cope best we could, then Jan 12th this year I lost my dear brother aged 45. I’m struggling and consumed with grief to the point where I see no light really in the end with all this. Any advice would be really appreciated …

and @Sades posted this a few days ago:

Multiple Losses

Hi all, new here and I’m not sure if it’ll help but I feel maybe if I say it aloud or type it out it could. So 2022 was the worst year of my life Jan we lost my step daughter just 25 years old very suddenly. Then August I had a miscarriage. October My Dad was diagnosed with Lung cancer and died November and then we had our dog put down December. To say that was hard is an understatement but to find out dad actually didn’t have lung cancer was hard also. Guess I feel a million emotions about it …

It’s good to hear that counselling is helping you. I really hope the community can continue to be a support to you, too. Please keep reaching out.

Take good care,
Seaneen