Georgi it is hard to celebrate anything without are love ones it was my Granddaughters birthday yesterday had a family party for her when they bought the cake in i started to cry because when Chris was alive i used to make the birthday cakes he used to decorate them he was very good at it . Just didn’t seem right without him being there. I went to the bathroom hope no one saw my tears. Then later came back to my empty house. Should be getting used to it by now it’s been nearly seven months but it gets no easier x
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Georgi despite everything I do hope you have a lovely birthday. I have a birthday in 3 weeks. I’ll be 65. I have bought a necklace as a gift from David. I always chose what I wanted and often purchased it too, he would then pay me the money. I will pretend nothing has changed. His birthday is 4 days after mine. I think I will find that harder.
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Debsie, I think that’s nice to buy a present from David, and I too think Mary’s birthday will be more difficult than my own.
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It was good Georgi - beef and chicken is a strange combination but very tasty!
You’ll know more about how you feel on your own birthday than I do, but I do hope you have as good a day as you can. Nigel xxxx
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I am back on sorting out my smartwatch xxx
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Got the smartwatch working now i think
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Just a number. I am 69 in 2 weeks ,xxxx
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Georgie, I agree it’s not the same, my daughter surprised me and took me over to her house, my son and Grandaughter came as well.it was different from the year before as we had a joint party. I was ok with my birthday, it was my husbands birthday that was sadder, we always talked about what year we would die, strange topic but my mum died at 70, his dad was younger again, my sister died at 67. When we made the big 70 we were happy, every year was going to be a bonus year, even though he didn’t get another year.
I could jump on the bus and bring a cake, don’t you worry we won’t forget it. Celebrate with us. . 
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Lizzy, yes I am okay, thanks it was quite funny really, with my sister shouting from the phone at the top of the shed, but like she said, I could have landed badly and hurt myself xx
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I have maybe my last councillor tomorrow. She has helped me a lot xx
Digger, it will be okay. My husband’s funeral was on my 69th BDay. I made it. You will too. And, we will all be here to celebrate your day.
Flints you are not defined by having a job, driving, or being the life of the party. You are valuable because of who you are and no one can change that. I am glad you are here. I am really sorry that you have lost your brother. I can’t imagine how awful this is for you. Too much sorrow for one.
Tech guy came and loaded up the laptop. Unfortunately, my PW for this site didn’t follow. Grr. When I figure it out, I will post some photos.
Bank today, one joint checking account is done, the others have to go through the legal department.
Another SUV load to the thrift store. TaDa!
Lizzy, I sure hope you don’t have a boiler in the next house. I can not believe that you got a legal bill without an itemized statement! We would be called before the Bar Association for that. Burn baby burn!
We have to list every problem we know of on a disclosure statement when selling.
Grocery shopped. Now for a late afternoon nap. I have had enough today.
Love to all.
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Debsie, I did that at Christmas as well, bought a bracelet, I think we all did really well getting over Christmas and New Year, I’ve also did the two birthdays and an anniversary . I don’t know how we get the inner strength to do it but it must get easier. It would have been better spacing them out as mine were all together. I will get a wee break for a while now. It’s always going to be sad, we will help each other get through these times.
I’m off to bed, I’m so tired, hope I’m not up till 4am tomorrow.
Night everyone xxxx:hugs:
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Okie dokie. I can still not believe it is my birthday in 2 weeks. We also got engaged on my birthday 39 years wow . First one ever on my own. Xxx
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Peaches I forgot to say the breakdown statement came today, I’ve been so busy I didn’t open it. It’s been audited by an independent auditor for yet another additional fee to let me know the lawyers haven’t charged me extra. It’s a lot more than I thought it would be. I’m glad I decided to do the Turkish side myself as they included some correspondence at the beginning. I still don’t know the amount that is going to the “worms”. As I’m the Executor I’m not sure if I will have to send them money or the lawyer will do it. No doubt I will find out soon. It makes me sick to give them any of my money. Xxxx
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Love to you too, Goodnight xxx
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The Beast looks comfy xx
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That’s good Dave, glad your counsellor has helped xx
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Lovely pictures Peaches!
Night night everyone. Tomorrow’s another day!
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