Hi i lost my husband in January this year suddenly i was with him right to the end he told me not to let him go as he was scared i am having a terrible time and i also feel lonely i am so sorry for all off you and i also send my best wishes . Tracey
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I’m so sorry for your loss. Prayers and hugs
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I’m very sorry for your loss, so harrowing for you.
@Joseph24 @Davidroy
I am so very sorry for your loss. It is the hardest thing in the world to watch the person you love the most
in the world pass away, it makes you feel so helpless.
I lost my lovely husband on Oct 28th 2022, so still very new for me. I have noticed that I have more good days now than at first. I still have very bad days, had one today and have cried and sat watching t.v for most of the day.
The grief is unbearable and I just let myself cry whenever I feel like it. I can’t say it gets better but as the days go by you learn to live with it. I was told to be kind to myself and let the grief come out when it needs to. It was the best advice I have been given.
Sending strength and love xx
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Yeh … its awful isnt it ! I gsve my husband a really big hug a few days before he passed ! Told him i dont want you to go and he said i don’t want to go either … its so damn sad when they dont want to go isn’t it 
oh god bless them xxx
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Yeh im the same … my husband passed in december … probably not as raw now true but still i feel strange without him … i don’t feel like me … im not the same ! I know im not ! Still same feelibgs for him but i not as strong as when i was with him ! I loved that security he gave me ! I often wish id made him go to drs earlier and it might hsve saved him but what with covid and all the crap we had with NHS in last few years - no wonder more people arent surviving its like going back to bloody victorian times !!! X
I lost my husband 16 days ago At times I think I can get through the day and then suddenly I’m lost, I’m uncontrollably sad and I miss him so much I can’t stop crying. It’s good to hear that this will get a bit easier in time but I don’t know how much pain my heart can take. It truly feels like it’s breaking. I’m glad I found this group for comfort
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Yes i was the same … its the grieving … it just gets you right in your heart ! You take care and let the tears flow ! Try to get someone to support you though ss its very overwhelming at times too . I felt very overwhelmed with my grief xxx
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I know what you mean especially when you said about your husband being your security.
I hate not having my husband around to comfort me if I am unhappy. I just feel empty and want my old life back again.
I do have good days but these last couple have been bad. I have lost the confidence to go out alone so I always have to rely on others. I am determined to get myself better for my husbands sake as I know he would hate to see me like this. So easy to say isn’t it.
Keep on being strong xx
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Oh i know its rubbish isnt it horrible living alone as a guy i know said to me today ! Its crap 
xx
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Thank you, same to you
Sending you all love, strength and best wishes. Last night I started crying and thought I would never stop. My Deb’s episode of the Chase came on today and it was hard to watch but at the same time wonderful to see her as she was. My daughter and me watched it through our tears.
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Was she on the Chase ? Aw thats lovely xx you must be very proud of her i watched that today! Xx it wasnt the blond lady was it ? X
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Yes the one that Sean was flirting with
They first showed it about 18 months ago. That was filmed about 3 years ago.
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Oh yeh ! Bradley told him off - to stop flirting !!! Oh thats brilliant. She looks a lovely lady x i met Bradley walsh once at a charity football match
She really was, beautiful, clever and funny.
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He likes his football.
How are you doing today? X