I have been out if the house 3 times since 27th June. His funeral. My bad month will be June. His death, birthday and funeral anniversaries. This is still very raw for me.
Yes, Alison, I’m sure pending days/weeks/months/years are there waiting in our heads to hit us.
I haven’t been out since Thursday but hoping to see a friend tomorrow afternoon,
Hope your shopping trip goes well. I, too, hope I won’t need to get the tissues out. The tears have been falling a lot lately.
Take care, Rosemary
@Pudding
It is. It is still very early days for you, your grief is still raw ,as you say.
I am sad that you haven’t been able to go out . I know you have said before that you can’t drive anymore and have trouble going out alone.
It is a shame we all live so far apart as if we lived closer we could at least meet up somewhere.
XX
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I really hope you get some rest tonight @Pudding
That would be really good wouldn’t it … all these friends we have made 
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My woes started this time last year too ! I wish it was still last year though ! At least my darling was with me then 
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@Deb5
Yes, it would be lovely as it would be nice to chat face to face. Wonder how we could do it… xx
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No idea ? Lol x
We could use private message to set up zoom. To meet in person we would need to establish people in areas. I know one person near Blackpool managed to start on here and then linked via Facebook to arrange meetings. I am not on Facebook. But I might rejoin.
@Pudding
That is a good idea. I know there is a zoom group but it wouldn’t hurt to start another one. At least we could chat instead of typing. xx
@Alir . Here I go again. Problem solving. I just can’t help myself.
@Pudding lol, good solution though. xx
I feel the same.I f people call I can’t wait for them to go although feel lonely at times
I like having people around in the whole. It takes my mind off the hurt. I like to focus on others. It is in my DNA to want to help others. I just wish at present I could help myself. I have even been investigating home share as an option. Being alone all the time is not good for me.