Dearest Karie, there is no doubt in my mind that Chip took comfort from you holding him in his final moments. What a heartbreakingly wonderful, beautiful thing to have done. 
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I am so happy to have been there he needed me and i needed him unlike Richard. i take this as a wonderful thing that we were together and the love was strong x
Hope your ok
I loved Jean with all my heart, and I know Jean loved me, and we needed each other, so please don’t say that there was any ( unlike ) about it
Hi Alex2, Yes sort of, hope you are also ok.
Richard x
did i say something ?
Hi Kate, Thank you Kate, your there again, bless you.
Richardxx
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sorry Richard i think what i put came across different to what i actually meant its hard to express feelings over messages i didnt mean it how you took it please accept my apologises x
i meant i wasnt struggling with the last moments unlike you im so sorry i read it back and it didnt come across good.
Karie, No problem , my mind is in a muddle again.
Richardxx
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i am so sorry i would never hurt anyone on purpose you were right it read really wrong not how i meant it i am really sorry. i know you loved your Jean and vice versa i meant i wasnt struggling like you, i will read what i put more carefully in future xxx
Like yourself Richard I’m also sort of but it’s hard isn’t it really hard always here if you need a chat I’ve got a good ear x
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Karie , I know you meant no harm, but seeing Jean take her last breath as I held her was tough, and I didn’t want anyone to think I didn’t care, she was my world and I just don’t know what to do without her,
Richard xx
Alex2, I will probably bend your ear late one night, that’s for sure, thanks.
Richard xx
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of course you care thats why you find it hard. the worst thing is, is just holding them while they take their last breath knowing there is nothing you can do but say good bye. xx
I know, you think your the only one that is hurting, you forget that there are so many people in the same position,
Richard xx
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Feel free I’m right here 24/4 richardx
im afraid thats so true we are all looking for help and advice on how to get through this. i bought chip some pjs for his birthday. it had bananas on it said on the top lets never split. he wore the top once. i have just sat and made the top into a cushion for my bed x
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Ah that’s nice, I am finding it is the little things about the house that bring back some touching memories, but I, like everyone else am struggling with being more or less unable to go out, which doesn’t help at the moment
i couldn’t agree more Richard its hitting me hard today. i wonder how me and chip would have passed the time and when i am out i just think chip is sat at home. For people like us suffering grieve this couldn’t have come at a worse time x