Rose, you’re giving Tony so much love and care……he sounds like he hasn’t given up yet and is still enjoying his life with you…….
They give us so much love in the time we have them………and love us unconditionally.
Thinking of you and Tony…….and sending you both huge hugs x
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Please you and Tony be careful tonight. No more falling out of bed.
Xx
Sandra
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Our daughter dropped by to join me for dinner.
Now I know I’ve dropped a pound or two.
And her comment was you have gone from a b to an a cup now dad,cheeky bugger.
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Rose,
Please don’t leave the group….we’re stronger together……you are one of us and we help each other through. When some of us are down there is always someone to offer you a hand out of the swamp.
You’re not weak….you’re going through this bloody awful time ……and you’re still here. You are Tony’s strength now……and you are still going on and getting though the oh so hard days…
Don’t give up……we all understand……We want you here……don’t leave, we will all miss you and your thoughtful posts that cheer us up.
Things can only get better Rose…hang on in there….with us. Xxxxx
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Thank you that is so kind.
He is has been quite a bit perkier today.
We have been out twice today
First time I carried him and second time I carried him and then he wanted to get down. So I placed him down on the pavement and he shot off across the road and into someone’s back garden!
So I had to go in and get him back.
Sadly, his chin is quite swollen and he has some difficulty eating. However, each meal is a taster meal. Different pouches opened for him to try.
He snores, belches and dare I say it, farts. Still love him!!
He has just got up off me and is exploring a different part of the house xx
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I love her sense of humour xx
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Hi,
I don’t think I have seen you post before. Please can you let me know your first name if you are ok to share.
Thanks
Siobhan
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Gosh, thank you so very much.
That is so kind xxx
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Hi all,
I have been sat here reading all your words to each other and it has made me realise that this forum is the best thing since sliced bread.
Everything i have read…apart from the wine…i dare not start down that road as yet, i don’t know if i could stop and i have a job i cannot afford to lose.
Like many of you, my cooker has not seen the light of day for quite a while now. My Colin…21st july last year, my heart broke. I have no one to cook for, both children are grown and have their own houses, it is just me and Brian(the cat) now. I have just had my second birthday without him, this isn’t how it is supposed to be. I said this to my friend. I said, we were supposed to live the rest of our lives together.
She said something that hit my heart so hard, it was almost physical pain. She said
" You did not get the chance to live the rest of your life with Colin, but he got to live the rest of His life with you."
Oh my God, did that not hit home.
Sending hugs to all.
Nicky
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Goodnight everyone
The co-codamol seem to be knocking me out
Love and hugs to you all
Liz x x
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Night night Liz talk tomorrow sleep tight.
Ronxx
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Night liz, sleep well.
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Well, you’ll be able to fit into a sparkly liberty bodice, then!
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Night Liz. xx
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Liz you’re off early tonight. Hope you’re ok and have a good sleep dear friend. xx
Rose /Linda , I came on here tonight and read your post about leaving and I felt sad. I don’t want you to go.
I’m in a bad way too. I don’t know how to carry on from one day to the next I loved my darling man with all my heart and we spent every second possible together. I miss him like crazy. Cant bear to part with anything of his and I tell him I love him all day long.
I’m scared to be honest. Really frightened that I can’t seem to do anything if I’m in my own. If I go out or meet up with someone I’m ok but as soon as I’m on my own at home then the worry sets in. I don’t seem to be able to concentrate on anything more than a few seconds. Given up reading and now not really interested in the TV. This group makes me feel part of something.
All of us knowing how awful it is. You’re not bringing anyone down. We’re already there. What you and the others do I to make sure we’re hanging on to someone.
Please don’t leave.
We can cope with all the emotions here but we need the laughter too. You’re a lovely lady please stay.
Lucy xx
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Just a smaller one now,anyone want a sparkly b cup liberty bodice?
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Hi everyone,I have had a lovely time with my grandson and his girlfriend. I made Chicken Fajitas followed by Sticky Toffee Pudding, luckily I still had some pudding in the freezer. He put my new clock up for me. I was down in the dumps this morning but feel so much better now.
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Linda I am delighted you are staying xx
Jane 2
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Glad you had a good time with your grandson and girlfriend. Being with family or friends can give us a boost.
Your meal sounds delicious… I love sticky toffee pudding.
Linda hope Tony is comfortable tonight.
Ron good to hear Jane’s had her op. Send her my love.
Sorry not liberty bodice required here, I’m well into my thermals.
Love Lucy x
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I was nice to cook for them, it is only the second time I have cooked a meal in the 13 weeks since Ray died.
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