Thanks Liz. I saw the nurse last Thursday. She said my throat looked good, no swollen glands, no temp etc. a virus. I know other people have had stuff that’s lasted awhile. It may be the stress finally catching up.
Sandra - I think we all feel guilt. I slept in the guest bedroom for the last few nights because I needed sleep. On his last night I slept in our room & he was in the lounge, as nurse suggested. I was with him when he died but he had a DNR but I couldn’t find it. So the paramedics still did it for a bit. I feel guilt about not staying with him, not finding the DNR paper quicker ( it was behind the drawer I looked in). We all loved our partners & I am sure they knew that too. So let’s try to focus on that.
Love and hugs to all. I managed to fall back asleep this morning after my earlier post.
Xx oo
Morning Linda…
So pleased that Tony is still managing to eat….he obviously is keen to stay with you and has not given up yet. Long may that continue…he sounds like a lovely boy……
Hope you are looking after yourself too……you must be shattered with everything at the moment…but you are stronger than you think Linda……you can do this with us all behind you…….and your support to us all means the world……
Was the two month anniversary yesterday…so I was deep in the swamp……today I’m grabbing everyone’s hands and I’m halfway out again! Need Jane to give me another boot up the backside with her sparkly wellies when she is better!
Sending love and the strength to get through the day today….hope everyone is coping ……
Lisa x
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