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I have sent a pm to the administrator to find out if there is another way to find the thread.

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Thanks Jane,it’s a bugger when it strikes,thankfully not too often.xx

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Thanks. I always just click on a post but did as the admin suggested, saved as a bookmark.

Sorry all but in the swamp. I have mouth ulcers as well as my sore throat. I think I am just really rundown.

Feeling sorry for myself.

Xx

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I don’t have a great deal of strength today but I will try,mouth ulcers are awful you have my sympathy.xx

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Rest today and hopefully you will feel stronger tomorrow

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Thank you,it usually takes about 24hrs but getting therexx

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Thanks Ron. I have had them before but today they feel more painful.
Hope you feel better too
X

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Get well soon xx

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Oh Ron and Siobhan

I’m sorry neither of you are feeling too clever.
I’ve had mouth ulcers, no fun at all

I hope you both feel better soon

X x

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Hi Ron just noticed your post.
I am sorry you are feeling rough.
Hope you feel better soon.
Thinking of you.
Love Doreen xx

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Thank you Doreen,feeling much better nowxx

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Hello Siobhan
Sorry you are not well and really down.
I have had mouth ulcers a few times and they
Are very painful.
I tried Bonjela to rub on and it really helped.
Love Doreen x

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Sorry you are feeling poorly Ron, hope you are soon back to feeling better. Xx

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Thank you Jane,much better now,how are you doing.Xxx

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Hi Doreen,

I have some bonjela left as I have had them before. I am not sure if it’s acid reflux (which I had years ago) or if it’s a side effect of duloxetine or just a virus. I had been to the nurse last Thursday. Felt better Friday and did some errands but then felt bad again Saturday. Not great this weekend. Kind of feeling better but hard to tell

Thanks :heart:

Xx

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How are you doing, Jane? Hope the pain is being controlled. xx

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I have had 2 back to back colds in the 3 months since R passed. The first one cleared up. Within 2 days I had a sore throat and dreadful cold again. Again my cold started to improve and yet another sore throat. I think my immune system has deserted me. Take care, hope you feel well soon
Maria x

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Hi Siobhan.
You really must rest. You cannot underestimate the effect grief has on your immune system. I haven’t been fully well since he died. Tummy problems. Vitamin deficiency. Covid. Colds. Arthritic flare up is the worst as it really affected my mobility. Still recovering with physio. By end of day my knees are giving up the ghost. Ibuprofen only has a limited effect.
All of you please rest when you can and look after yourselves.
Xx
Sandra

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Thanks Sandra and Maria,

I have been signed off work. I had alot of stress the first couple of weeks with probate and changing cars. So I figured that’s why I got sick. But I will just keep resting.

Love to all. Grief certainly takes a toll emotionally and physically.

Xx oo

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