Tony had become a bit more of an indoor cat as he had increasing dementia and a heart problem.
Since March he was always with me.
Tonight, he was not next to me placing his paw on my arm to remind me how much he would like some of my food.
Tony was not snuggled up to me or lying next to me as I lay on the sofa to show me how much he loved me.
Tony was not cuddling me with a paw on each shoulder or his head under my chin, purring with pleasure and delight.
I am without my lovely, sweet gentle boy who was such a support and companion since March.
I love our other cat but he is an independent, outdoor cat who is definitely not a lap cat.
He stayed out as much as possible during the summer months and stayed out more as Tony needed more care and attention.
This is not a criticism of either cat.
The house really feels so empty and not the family home it was.
This time last year we were a loving family of four living our comforting and safe lives together. We had each other.
It has to be this time of year and the dark nights that is dragging everyone down. I know it goes in cycles. There is no rhyme or reason as to why it hits so hard some days.
All I can say is gradually it gets less hard.
Linda it is going to be so hard for you but you couldn’t let Tony suffer. Try and look back on those strokes and cuddles.
Awww Rose my heart goes. Out to you too.i undeeestand the loss of. Fur baby, bobby our yorkshire terrier died exactly a week after Gra. Ty for the hugs . Jo xxxx
Oh Linda, I’m so, so sorry. Tony was a much-loved family member but also a link to your partner. I totally understand that feeling of everything being swept away from under your feet. Massive hugs. xx
Jo, Sharon and Linda we are all here for you. I’m on swamp duty tonight and have a strong pair of hands at the ready.
Together we can make it through this. A united little group who all know what the others are going through as we’re going through it too. It’s good to have such support.
No brandy for you tonight Ron. Let the alcohol work its way out of your system or I’ll give you some Epsom salts. That will sort you out
Love Lucy xx
Ty Lucy and Kathy, i really don’t know what bit is about today ,ok I know Sundays aint good but I havent felt so down in days. Maybe because its 19 weeks tomorrow, maybe the dark nights, i truly dont know. But ty all for the helping hands. Xxx
try making contact with your other cat. My cat Tammy was outside all summer, she only came indoors when it was getting colder. Now she wants to be cuddled. Perhaps you could try to bribe the cat with some special food. She might change. It would not be the first time. Talk to her when you see her. Stroke her head when she is near, or when you give her a special food, you might be surprised. Just be patient. Remember, cats can read your mood. You are on the right road when your cat slowly closes her eyes.
So glad you’re home Jane
Now you need to recover …so pleased you have Jamie there to help look after you and Katie…
Get well soon………and keep away from cobblestones in future!
Lisa x
