Thank you,I will certainly try.
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I’m afraid I’ve had more worrying news today.
Honestly life is a pig.
It’s just one thing after another
Big hugs to everyone x x
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Hi Doreen
If another person tells me it will get better i will explode. I have to have the tv as this house has no soul now. Empty shell. I am 59 and cannot see a way forward either. Food is an effort also. Buying less each time. Its pathetic everyone carrying on. I do go out with jack biscon poo daily. I have to go out other wise going stirr crazy like you how how how are we to carry on it feels like going up hill backwards withba 100 weight backpack. Constant headache tinnitus remains blasting out. Hips hurting too early to bed. Pathetic but just how i feel x
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Yes, I have found writing in a journal to my husband about how I feel and also about what I have been doing has been helpful … I include pictures and talk about our lives together …
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Hello liro
Tell me what else has happened.
How can I help?
Worried for you.
Doreen xx
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Hello
I read your post and know what you felt and absolutely believe it.
I woke up one morning a few weeks ago now.
I had cried a lot the night before and felt I could
barely breathe was calling out my husband’s
name calling Sam Sam I love you.
I was barely awake with my eyes still closed
and I felt someone was really close to my face
staring at me very closely I could actually feel it.
I had a great sense of relief and I opened my eyes.
Nothing and no one there.
I know different though.
Wishing you love and comfort.
Doreen x
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Hiya Liz I hope all is ok.
Your not wrong life is a bitch.
Hugs Jo xxx
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I write on the notebook on my phone and then I type them up so I can put them in a folder.
Like you I tell him what I’ve been doing and I ask his advice on things and talk about things we’ve done.
Anything that comes into my brain really.
I’m doing separate photo albums.
I just think it keeps a connection. I shall always do it. Its part of my life now. A big and important part.
X x
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I write in a journal to my husband. It makes me feel like he is still with me and gives me comfort. 
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I found out today that my niece may have cancer. She bravely fought off very agressive breast cancer a few years ago. Now this.
Its not definite yet but given her history they are going to do a biopsy and take it from there.
My poor sister is worried stiff. She lost a son to bowel cancer about 6 years ago. She suffers from MS and has had breast cancer and is quite frail
Since Roger died in February ,
my brother is fighting prostate cancer,
my youngest brothers wifes twin sister took her own life,
my other brothers wife may have lung cancer.
Rogers cousin died, they were quite close, they were virtually brought up together. And a friends father died.
So I’m afraid I’m finding life a bit of a trial at the moment.
I’d like to thank everyone for the love and support I get here.
It really helps to know that people understand
Love and hugs to everyone
Liz x x
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Hi @2hard2bear
I’m glad that like me you get comfort from it.
It keeps a connection.
I talk to him to. I have been known to tell him off too
Big hugs
Liz x x
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Hiya Liz
I am so sorry you are hoing through a hardctime again. Why is life so cruel, when you are already on the floor and it keeps giving you another kick.
My heart goes out to you your sister and all those concerned.
I will keep my fingers crossed you all get good news soon.
You can always message me if you ever need to tak.
I am always here.
Sending you massive hugs Jo xxx
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Lori
I am so sorry to hear about your family. It’s alot and very emotional. Please look after yourself and be sure to try and rest when you can. Emotions take a physical toll. Will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. I hope your niece doesn’t have cancer.
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Thankyou Jo
It means a lot to know you’re thete
Love and hugs
Liz x x
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Big hugs, Liz.
Life is so unfair.
Wishing you and your family love and strength. Xx
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Always Liz whenever you need me I will be there I am so so sorry you have to go through all this too.
Hugs Jo xxx
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Hi liz
My thoughts right now are with you and your family
There are no words xx
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What a very difficult and worrying time for you and your family. Sending strength and healing. X
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