I lost my jimi 10 months 1 week and 5 days ago he went into hospital with a broken leg but died 5 days later. All i want to do is sleep so i dont remember we were married 49 years and 6 months. I miss him so much i dont want to be here anymore without him.
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No chance,still here.
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I pray each night that jimi will come for me but he never does
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So very sorry.
I think taking their name off things is very difficult.
I think it also one of the devastating actions we never think about before they pass.
Sending a big hug,
Rose xx
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Thank you rose your very kind
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I had similar thoughts like that in the first few weeks after my wife of 55yrs passed in April.
Now I know I am not unique and many other people are in a similar position,
The people on this forum have helped me enormously,and now I can see a tiny glimmer of light.
Try and keep strong.
RonXxxx
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Thank you ron. I feel guilty wanting my life to end when there are so many people who treasure their lives. But i have even prayed to swap with someone who wants to live because i am finding it harder every day
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It is heartbreakingly hard,what helps keep me going is,would my wife want to mourn her the rest of my days,or wish to die,we had too much love together for that.
As difficult as it is one small step at a time.
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I know jimi wouldn’t be happy with me for crying all the time and feeling the way i do. He was always filled with so much love for me. Maybe i owe it to him to at least try. Thank you
Shirl xxx
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Good for you,a couple of other members on this forum sometimes try to cheer others up a bit,we have had our knuckles wrapped a couple of times but hey the lord loves a trier.
RonXxx
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Ron you are so right my mum always used to say that big hugs xxxx
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Thanks pam xxxx
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That’s such a lot to bear. Sending hugs.
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Thank you all of you i dont feel so alone xxxxx
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I noticed your comment on another thread regarding hospital negligence my wife died of avoidable sepsis,we were on the cusp of legal action,my solicitor today was informed that the senior duty nurse and the attending doctor had now “left the trust”
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Same here the neglect was criminal. I have the report back contains 40 sorries and we have put this in place. Its a load of rubbish they probably havent done anything. What nurse would tie his emergency bell up so he couldnt reach it or a hospital with no gowns i could fight it but i am so traumatised at the minute i just cant my poor jimi must have really suffered in his last few days. I cant even go to the hospital i have panic attacks. The nhs is proper broken xxxx
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Hi everyone it’s Friday night and I’m struggling again, I’ve read the messages about negligence and they ring true to me, my husband went in hospital after a hypoglycemic collapse and spent 5 weeks in hospital before he passed away, I’m sure it was avoidable and I’m deliberating what do about it, I have huge health anxiety now because of what I’ve had to witness
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After my wife passed and looking at the scant evidence at the time,my fabulous daughter and I demanded a meeting with members of the trust board,we had our meeting on the 17th of Sept and they admitted serious mistakes were made,strange the senior on duty nurse and attending doctor left the trust on the 19th?
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Same here. The surgeon that operated on him without all the facts is no longer with the trust. Sometimes makes you wonder if they close ranks. There were 45 separate complaints from a&e to the ward he died on. I thonk it would cost me loads to fight them and being a disabled pensioner dont have that luxury. But someone should be accountable but they just get away with things. Sometimes i wish i was minted and i would nail them to the wall. But just wishful thinking xx
Has anyone ever hone down the no win no fee route?
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