Dear Helen, could you phone someone to come round a be with you? From the animal sanctuary or a neighbour? Just for a little may get you something you might feel like eating?
We are all worried about you 
Please try and eat
Thinking of you
Tom
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Helen,
I’m glad you have had something to drink,as people have said just try a piece of toast, with something on. We know it’s hard, but we have to try. My food to start with was crisps, crumpets (I still don’t understand that one), and a hot chocolate. I’m glas you have rung some one else.
Please take care.
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We all know the unbearable pain you’re going through. Please eat something , and have a hot drink . Reach out to your gp like @Bonnie3 has said . My gp really helped me in the early days . Please 
let us know how you are we are all concerned about you
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Dear Helen, please let us know how the telephone triage goes. We are all worried about you
Wishing you all the best
Tom
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Dear Helen
Brandon said you.were posting on here.
Thinking of you and glad you contacted111 and hopefully getting some help.
Please let us know how you are managing. We all care about you.
I’m sure you feel very drained with all the anxiety.
When we get desperate and panicky we just want someone to help. Hope you are getting some help. Drink plenty of water if you can.
Take care.
Sending
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Helen,
Please let us all know how you are doing and what help you have had.
Do you have anyone that can come and be with you for a few hours just to listen and get you something to eat.
We have all gone through the feelings that you have and each one of us is here to help you get through the rough as well as the good days that you will have.
Take baby steps set yourself a goal for each day, it might just be getting something to eat, keep talking on here and especially with your GP.
Take care
Sandra. X
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Helen please post to tell us what is happening.we are all worried about you.
Tom
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Good morning Helen, how are you?
Wishing you all the best
Tom
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Dear Helen, good morning to you!
Did you manage to get some sleep last night?
Sending strength your way.
Please try to find some strength and get yourself some high-calorie energy drinks.
And please reach out to your doctor who will be able to help you.
Take care and stay safe!
Kind regards - Joe
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Dear Helen
I hope you are ok and you maybe got some help yesterday.
Please let us all know how you are feeling today.
Thinking of you.
Take care.
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Morning Helen
I do hope you have managed to get some help and have had something to eat . Let us know how you are . Thinking of you
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Dear Helen - thinking and worrying about you. Maybe you are being cared for in hospital. Hoping we will hear from you soon. Bonnie.
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Good Morning.
Helen..I’m so sorry you are feeling as you do it’s a very tough time and those feelings of desperation are something we have all gone through.
I never thought I was the type of person to feel how I did when John passed.
The most horrific time of my life.
I like you n countless others couldn’t eat or drink.
After around 3-4 weeks of just water I had three crackers each day. I looked at myself in the mirror one day n didn’t recognise the face looking back at me. I was honestly shocked n because I’ll admit I’m a tad vain I realised I needed to look after myself as John would want me to.
He used to say he was proud to be seen with me so I had to pull myself together for him if not for me.
It was a huge struggle but I managed.
Believe me, I miss him every single day and it’s terribly painful him not being here but I know that me as me is back.
It will get better, you won’t believe it now as any of us on here didn’t, but it will…
Take each day as it comes and drink plenty and take a bite of something. The effort of getting up to make that is worthwhile as it just makes you think of what you are doing for just a few minutes taking your thoughts to something else.
Try to get out of bed, wash the bedding n hang it out and whilst doing that listen to the birds and look at the garden.
Nature helps enormously.
Bit by bit you will come back.
We are all here for you.
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Hi Helen, I hope you are feeling better, please let us know how you are. So many people worry about how you are?
Wishing you all the best
Tom
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Hi Helen how are you doing. We haven’t heard anything from you since this morning. I would love to know that you are all right. Worrying about you 
All the best
Tom
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Good night Helen I hope you are feeling better. Thinking of you 
Wishing you a peaceful night
Sleep well
Tom
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To Helen
Please let someone know how you are doing,
Hopefully you have eaten and slept gor a while.
Where abouts do hou live which county maybe one of us lives close by and could meet up with you.
Take care Sandra x
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Dear Helen
Thinking of you and hoping you are ok. Please let us know how you are when you can.
Take care.
Julia
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Dear helen20
I do hope you have got some.help.and had some food you need to eat and drink even if its only little bits just keep trying you know your husband would not want to see you like this at all I know its easy for us to say all this to you but you can see on here people do care about you and we have all go e through what you are going through believe me I am a ceoliac so it means a special diet for me and I never feel hungry at all I could and have gone days without food but always have drinks its very important to eat and drink even if we don’t feel like it please speak to you gp about all off this as they are great mine was and still is and I am 5 yrs on so helen if I can do it so can you I know you have that strength do you have any family that can help you if you want to talk to me anytime day or night I am here and I will try to help you I promise you can pm message me if you like please get back to us helen and let us know ow how you are pleas we are all worried about you we care
Sweetlady
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