Good night and hopefully some sleep for you Joe
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So glad you have posted and let us know how you are . Your cats will keep you going. just like my dogs got me though in my early days of grief.I know you’re not impressed with professional people you have spoken to . And it may be to early for you , I attend a bereavement cafe once a month it helps to talk how you are feeling. You can also put on here as well . We all understand as we are going through the same thing. Please take care of yourself.sending hugs to you . 
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Hugs right back at you! Yes, I think all animals can give comfort, not the same always as your soul partner but certainly better than a lot of professionals. I`ve spent a couple of days hugging my poor kitties hard. xx
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You’ll have to send us a photo of these two beauties, they certainly deserve a hug
All the best
Tom
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I will do when I can work out how to do it, not that clever with tech. And you`re right, they certainly deserve loads of hugs for saving me from myself.
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Thank you for letting us all know you are ok.
Tom was getting worried about you.
We have all experienced grief and at different stages and time of this club we didnt want to join.
I promise it does start to ease, im coming up to year 3 without Rob,I still have bad days but I find I function and manage better than I ever thought I would.
Take each day one step at a time, dont rush anything and try to eat a meal each day.
We ate here if you need to chat xx
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Helen, when you are writing your post there’s a little box at the bottom right hand corner with a little mountain. You press it and it takes you to your gallery you then choose a photo and press accept. It then load the photo you have chosen
All the best
Tom
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I truly hope it does start to ease at some point, thank you. xx
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Dear Helen,
maybe this might be helpful.
Regrettably the pictures added themselves in the wrong order.
The second picture shows the first step and the first one shows the second step.
Wishing you a good and restful night!
Kind regards - Joe
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I will try tomorrow, Tom, I`m not on a smartphone, but a chromebook, and not sure whether I have photos stored on it, as I got old fashioned prints at Boots.
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It’s not important Helen what matters is that you are here posting.
Wishing you all the best
Tom
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First one is Puss Puss, 20 years old blind and deaf, second is Treecat, that I found living in a tree in our back garden. As you can see not a professional photographer, just took these aiming my chrome book at them.
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Your cats are gorgeous 
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Thank you, I think so. xx
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Your cats are lovely they remind me of a cat I used to have many years ago .
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Thank you, all cats are lovely, aren`t they. xx
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They look very huggable 
All the best
Tom
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Dear Helen,
thank you for those beautiful pictures!
Cats are great, they’re wonderful companions.
Please continue to take good care of yourself!
Good night to you!
Kind regards - Joe
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Well done Helen. Tom had to explain to me how to load photos too. Look after yourself and don’t forget to eat a little x
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