It’s so hard one minute there and then gone my husband died 6 month ago and he’s always on my mind sometimes I call my son his dads name because he’s so like him which doesn’t help everybody tells me it gets better when take care of yourself and try and be strong x
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I lost my hsband 12 days ago and i have been searching everywhere for people to talk to - i too live in Yorkshire and have joined a group called Jolly Dollies. I have not contacted them yet since registering but thought you might be interested
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Thanks littleburty, not heard of the group but I’ll have a look. Support is so important for all of us. I hope that each day gets a little bit easier, sending live and hugs x
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Hello Matthew just going to say l am so sorry for loss she was 45 you are left alone to you have to deal with the loss. And all your plans and your dreams are just a memory so getting further away from you so would like to hear her saying she loves you and yes it doesn’t take the pain away just say if you need to chat with me will listen to you and be your friend. As say so sorry for you you are in my thoughts and prayers
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Yes so sad for loss of billy see his empty chair. He was in lot of pain because he suffered and you have been married for 57 years yes bet you can’t believe he gone sent you my love and respect and prayers. So will hold you in my thoughts and heart together always so if you need to chat will be here for you
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I just keep thinking i cant do this ! Richard would not want me to be so devastatingly unhappy
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Hello beryl hope you are doing okay so just very sorry for your loss he was one who dealt with all the admin and he alo told you not worry so did dealt with all things with the home just say you are doing okay so you make every day to make him so happy remember the best time you had together so this is first time you have been no here. You are in a special place right now you where the perfect team together remember you love him and he love you so will be ok.
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Hello Richard. Yes know it’s devastating so unhappy. Just say have to take one day at time sent you my condolences and prayers. Am so will be thinking about you know it’s so painful now. You try to get out for walk will make you feel better so just take care of yourself always
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Thank you for your message sorry for the late reply, thats very sweet of you thank you, i’ll be ok i just need time to get to a place in my mind when i can let go and embrace everything we both was, people like us are sad because we all have one thing in common, we all have experienced true love and that is truly special x
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Matthew you are so welcome and very nice to say this about me yes will take time to get your place in your mind. As soon and then you can embrace yes we do have experience in true love and respect truly special. Hope you are doing okay today. And just have to say that I lost my brother in April. Do still think about him. So Matthew can sent me message. Again. You are welcome Lynda
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It sounds similar to my grief. The numbness the gut wrenching emptiness. It’s 7 weeks for me since my husband passed away. We only had each other and that was enough of course now I am left with nobody. He was my everything, we didn’t need to say what we were thinking we knew. I’m unable to stay at home I’m out early 7.30am and don’t get back till as late as possible. Just to shower and sit in corner in front of the TV. Then a cup of coffee in the morning and off again, exhausting. The emptiness at home is too much, I hope I can stay home some time, it’s full of my beloved husband.
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Hi there i’m so sorry to hear that about your brother life can be so hard bless you, how are you ?
I have had a bad day to day it comes in waves up and down i just miss her so much, thank you for asking i hope in time it gets a little easier for you x
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Hi there. Yes l am doing okay say thank you about my brother so you had a bad day to day. Yes just comes in waves up and down. Yes you will miss her so much you are welcome so will get bit easier for you take one day at time. So we can chat together about anything you want to tell me. I will understand you and be there for you every day
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Thank you thats very kind of you
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I lost my husband 5 weeks ago and my brother 4 weeks before that. I completely understand why you have to get out of the house. We were together for 43 years, and the pain of his loss is immeasurable. I have to put the TV on as soon as I get up, it’s company, and breaks the awful silence. It may help if you can stay in the house for say 10 mins longer every day for a week, then the next week try 20 mins each day. Eventually you might find yourself staying in till lunchtime. Please done feel alone, sending support and hugs x
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Hi Matthew you are so welcome yes l am very kind person just say if you need to chat with me. Remember l will be here for you as best friend. So care of yourself. And just take care so. One day at time. Know is going to be hard to say to you. Just think of good times you had together. But this will be lot hard for you. And will be thinking about you and. Will be here for you every day so take care Lynda
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Hi tiblet 2. Yes l know similar to my grief. So your husband passed away and you only had each other and that was enough yes of course now so you left with nobody. And he was your everything. And did not say much to each other but you both new what you thinking so are unable to say at home and you are out early in morning and don’t get back until late as possible. And just have a shower and sit in corner in front of the TV so and then you have a cup of coffee in morning and then you are off again between you are so exhausting so it’s emptiness at home so it is to much. Just say if you need to chat with me will be here for you and will be thinking about you so take care of yourself always Lynda
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Thank you Lynda x💜
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Hello Katy you are just struggling tonight so you looking for something I the cupboard and you saw his favourite foods on the shelf and it broke your heart and the enormity of losing him. Just hit me. And you can’t stop crying. So will take some time to come for you would to say to you. Try to give yourself some special things will make you feel bit happy. But will take some time. Hope you would to chat to me as friend. Take care of yourself always
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So it’s only been 15 weeks for you since your loss And you will feel sad for some time and you will cry for some time. Will get easy just in time and take care of yourself. And think of the best time you had together and some happy days so hope you will like to chat. Together just make you feel better in time to come. Will just reply back to you. Okay Lynda
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