Thank you brummy. It means a lot.
I hope you’re shopping trip in to Chester goes ok tomorrow. I know it’s hard for you.
Take care.
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Night night everyone x
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Thank you. I went again today but found it hard to say anything. Just sat there thinking. It’s so difficult saying goodbye.
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I hope you’re feeling much better now and the stroke wasn’t too bad.
Have you family to help care for you
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I am absolutely fine now it was very slight, more of a warning, my family are very good at looking out for me. Thank you for asking
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Morning everyone,
Take care.
Rajay, glad you are ok.
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Good morning everyone I am really struggling I am sitting having a cup off tea I keep replaying what happened to my beautiful wife over and over again I am.really down sad just everything I look around in the house and it was a happy house with the 2 of us laughing joking so so happy together I am.looking at the corner off our living room where the christmas tree would stand I am.really really struggling so much without her and any help christmas is really getting to me with christmas music and lights everywhere ppl happy and I am so so sad and think what I had is gone and I will never have that again i lost my wife 30 weeks today and it still feels like yesterday I have never cried so much in my life everyday I am.so alone nobody nows how much pain I am carrying I sometimes think what’s the point nobody cares not that I have anyone just work colleagues no neighbours even care or chap the door to ask how I am they where good at the beginning but now they disappear it would be just nice for someone just to say are you ok do you need anything I hate going to the shops for a few things it is so hard for me and even harder with christmas I just wish someone would care I would never like to see anyone alone and especially at this time of year it’s hard enough for us all I just really love my wife miss her and I still love her for what other half of me I have left I miss hearing her sweet voice and what I would do to have a cuddle and hear her again I sorry if I have rambling on but i am.really really struggling
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We understand.
You are not rambling.
Take care
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Morning everyone,
a chilly morning.
Take care x
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You are not rambling and we understand how you feel, I lost the love of my life almost 18 months ago we were together 52 years. This week I crashed my car and he wasn’t here to give me a hug and tell me it was alright and then I had a fall and all I wanted was him to comfort me. I think this time of year makes our grief feel worse if that is possible. Sending you a virtual hug, I hope you don’t mind.
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I’m so sorry for your loss, everyone on here understands the painful, sad empty feeling you are forced to endure. I found my partner dead after being away for two nights and I feel so guilty not being there for the last two days of his life. I feel I betrayed him and he was such a good person. We didn’t have children but my sister has been a rock. You say you don’t have anyone but what about your wife, did she have anyone you could talk to? It’s not for everyone but are there any bereavement groups in your area. Your GP surgery should be able to advise. I hope in time you find peace
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Thank you so much I really could be doing with a cuddle I am sorry if I have went on but I am truly struggling I only have my counciling once a week but that is just a sticking plaster for then and as soon as I come home I am back to my way again hate this pain so much I just want to be with my wife again
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I am so sorry for your loss I can imagine how you must feel to I lost my wife so suddenly while we where on our wedding anniversary the day before it I actually have nobody no friends or family I am getting counselling but that just works for then then I go.back to this way again I am truly struggling
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Thank you so much iam just really struggling with everything
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Please don’t think that you are going on say as much or as little as you like, if you are worried about it please feel free to message me and we can ramble to each other. I hope your day gets easier
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Dear Love01
Please understand we all know what you’re going through. The days are so hard, I miss my husband so so much, I loved him with all my heart. It’s been 8 weeks for me and I struggle all day every day. His loss is just unbearable. I too feel like I can’t go on some days. Can’t wait for Christmas to be over. I feel like there’s a big sign on my head saying ‘widow’, I’m 55 and feel too young for this. I have a sister who lives 10 minutes away and she avoids me like I have a disease or something. Why don’t people realise that by saying nothing, the hurt we feel is so much worse. Take good care of yourself and rant away here, if you even want to message me I don’t mind. I wish we could all get together and just give each other a hug. Sending good wishes to all of you going through this new hell
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Iam so sorry you are going through this hell we have to endure, you are very early in your journey and everything is so raw. I am almost 18 months down the line and for me the days are getting a little easier and I don’t cry as much as I did, I have found some peace and I hope it can be the same for you one day, grieving can’t be rushed so go at your own pace.
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Thank so much it’s just really hard this
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