How’s your Day Going Today?

The planned move is keeping me busy.

Man is coming tomorrow at 9 to take photos for the estate agent, then I have someone to do an EPC, whatever that is.

Also arranged to view 3 properties on Friday 27th. Two bungalows and one house. Son wants me to have a bungalow in case my knees go like Jackie’s did. I think I’m relatively strong for a 79 year old, but he’s probably right. It’s just bungalows are hard to find.

Anyway, it’s my decision in the end :pray:

Jackie did all this sort of stuff, whenever we moved before and she always had the final decision on which house. :grinning: At least I can know appreciate how much work she did.

Good night to anyone that’s around.

Another day ends :broken_heart::zzz::zzz:

@Johnr
I’m sure your Jackie will be with you when you go viewing properties and guide you to what she wants you to have…
Goodnight n let’s see what tomorrow brings…

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Jackie’s cousin is going to try and come with me, so I may have 2 ladies to contend with.

Only joking, she’s lovely and lost her husband 8 years ago so knows what losing a partner is like.

Good night to you Mitzi as well. Xx

Goodnight John.
I agree with Mitzi1.Im sure Jackie will be with you when you are viewing properties.
Take care

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Lovely dawn of another day. Didn’t sleep much last night. My mind was racing about moving. I am not much worried about my house, it’s what comes after, with viewing and all the legal stuff. But I’ll manage.

Now a busy day ahead. Estate agent photos being taken this morning, then an EPC bloke later. Seeing my doc this afternoon. She’s just checking on how I am. Finally tonight, I’m going out playing music, or attempting to. :grinning:

Hope you all have a good one

I hope everything goes well. Enjoy your music night.

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@Johnr
Morning. Sounds like you have a busy day ahead so enjoy. It’s good to be busy and then sit back and reflect on what you’ve done and achieved.
Have a great night playing your music. Your Jackie will be so proud you are moving on a little bit at a time…

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I hope she will.

As you know it’s so difficult :broken_heart: Still we must continue through the tears. :cry::cry:

I hope everything goes well for you today.Enjoy your music tonight.Take care

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Good so far. Photos done for estate agent. Now waiting for the EPC person.

Estate agent I am using is a local independent one run by females. Even the photographer was female. They seem very good.

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I hope it all goes well John really do and as smooth as possible for you def your Jackie be looking out for you too I’m sure i hope my linda will if i decide to go from here id hate it knowing id upset her leaving our home feels like I’m going backwards not moving forwards doing it though all the best on the viewings im sure when you see the right one it will feel right to you :crossed_fingers::+1:

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Thanks Martin.

Jackie wouldn’t be over the moon at me leaving our home, but in the end, I and you have to do what’s right for us.

The only thing keeping me in our house was Jackie. She’s now in a plot in the church where we got married. I need to get out of this house and back near, so I can visit her.

My nephew went to see her a few days ago and he said it was very peaceful there. I’ve commissioned a stone inscription similar to the one behind her temporary marker.

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The GP is happy at my ‘progress’ since Jackie passed. She said I looked a lot better and agree for me to not take any antidepressant tablets. I had various reactions to them anyway. I just need to start taking more exercise such as walking.

Off to play music tonight. Hope they have the air conditioning on.

Have a good evening everyone

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Glad you got on ok at he GP john.Im off medication now but still struggle.Enjoy the music tonight.Take care

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I’ve just been put on antidepressants as the doctor thinks it might help me sleep. Especially on a Fridays with the flash backs. Not started taking them yet. Do they work ?

I was on Diazapan.I was taking 4 a day when i was off work,then gradually reduced them.They did help but made me very tired and a bit dizzy.

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Thank you. I have mirtazapine. Just not sure about taking it.

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I was unsure but decided to take them as i was in a bad way mentally and coudnt stop crying.Be carefull of any possible side effects.

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Thank you.

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