My husband was athletic and healthy had just turned 60 and died of a cardiac arrest out of the blue. I think many people who knew him were shaken as in “this could happen to anyone”. But it happened to the love of my life - not to “anyone” 
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So sorry to hear that! I can’t bear the thought of getting rid of ANYTHING right now, this must be so hard and painful, on top of the grief and missing him
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Oh my goodness that is sad for you. I feel for you so much. Am sending you hugs, I hope you can try to have a restful evening, I know it’s hard though. Thinking of you. X
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That must be so tough for you , hope you manage a comfortable evening.
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Hi Peg, so sorry to hear that you have had a painful evening, dealing with things like this is very hard. Today I saw a jewelry box from my wife in her aunt’s house and I broke down in tears. Fortunately I was on my own but such a small thing just shook me.
I hope you have a peaceful night
Tom 
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Thank you so much everyone. It’s so hard, this damn grief road… hugs to all of you too xx
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Hi Anita, my wife was also really healthy, walked most days up the mountain near our house, ate well, swam and did yoga but then she was given five months to live at 58. We had so many plans, hoping to retire early may five years or so and travel. We had spent so much of our lives just working, for nothing.
Wishing you all the best
Tom
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It feels so unfair! years of hard work waiting for the time when you can just relax, and then your loved one is gone and we are left with this hole made of pain inside of us.
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My husband was 64 when he died suddenly from a heart attack.He was days of his 65 birthday, he was working towards his retirement. We had so many plans , now all gone
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My partner had only just retired too, we were going to move and I was hoping to semi retire to be able to enjoy our lives together, so unfair. I don’t know what I’m going to do now 
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@Brandon1 Thats brilliant
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Good night to you all , hope you all manage to get some sleep tonight
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Thank you Mezza1958.Sending you a hug and everyone on here too.Take care.
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Goodnight everyone. It’s been an emotional day, an old friend with terrible news visited, my son and I had words and I have 8 viewings booked to view our beautiful home.
Anyone else feeling like a bowl full of jelly (sorry to throw this in)
Hope everyone sleeps x
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Anita66,
Thats ok.It really is so hard this path we find ourselves on.Thank goodness for this site and the kind understanding people on here who all understand how we feel and what we are going through.I hope you have had a bearable day?I hesitate to use the wrd “good” as is any day a “good “ day without our dear loved ones being with us.It is so cruel that it is always the kindest, generous, most loving people taken from us.Take care.
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Oh bless you, that’s alot to deal with in one day. I hope you manage to have a restful evening. Sending big hugs to you x
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Ight night everyone x
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I hope everything goes well with the viewings and once you’ve sold your house your son will come round to it. Best wishes
Tom
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I dread the night, very rare I sleep now past 1 in the morning the night becomes a nightmare for me, then the daylight comes and hopefully something better than the previous day, what a state to be in, its like the living dead
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