How’s your Day Going Today?

Hallo loveyababes. I’m so sorry about your husband and your loss. I have to say that I at 78 feel angry that my then 81 year old partner left me. Of course we were ‘old’ but we didn’t feel old at heart. My body is now produces an endless series of symptoms which frighten me, especially at the dreaded 3.30, and he’s not here to reassure me. I had a really good day yesterday, God knows why, and it feels like I’m paying for it now. Life can be so unfair. I don’t know how to end this except with banal wishes which are probably just words. Maybe I can say I hope it helps to know you’re not alone in your feelings.

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Morning Tom

Lovely sky let’s hope it doesn’t turn into that old wives tale though…red sky in the morning Shepards warning :blush:

I hope your Friday is kind to you

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I also lost the love of my life, 35 years together. Am thinking “why do I feel like I no longer belong” and I think is because home is where my heart is and my heart is with my husband, he is no longer here so this no longer feels like home, but merely the place where I live. I miss him terribly and I don’t see how I can grow old without him by my side.

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I had a lie in 3am , for me that about 1hour more than usual,see what the day brings,

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Morning All

Well we made it to Friday so whatever today holds for you I hope it’s stress free and brings some joy to you x :hugs: to all in need

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Morning all

Busy day ahead for me. Wishing you all the best day it can be x

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Hi spike1

Woohoo you had a lie in that’s great news maybe more to come

Sarah

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Hi Heartbroken12, I have always said that every time I see a red sky at night or in the morning though I am not sure if I’ve ever seen any reality to it. Maybe it depends on the country you live in or it’s just rubbish. ,:astonished_face::joy:


The weather is looking good here now
Wishing you all the best for your day
Tom :people_hugging: :people_hugging:

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I doubt it the weekend coming always a bad thing I find, mind you got to help son empty a swimming pool if I don’t fall in, its cold and dirty, got to keep busy ,go see a ex girlfriend and her hubby,I seem to visit a lot to get me out of house.

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I am so sorry for your loss, my husband died suddenly from a heart attack.last September he was 64 year old just 6 days away from his birthday. We had been together for 36 years. I have had bereavement counselling and an attended a bereavement cafe once a month. Both of which have helped me . Might be worth you checking in your area to see if there is anything like that in your area . Posting on here really helps as well as we all understand what we are going through. Look after your self .

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Morning Tom
Beautiful picture

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Good morning Sherbet, I hope you have a lovely day
All the best
Tom :people_hugging::people_hugging:

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Morning Everyone
Beautiful sunny morning here , according to my weather app it going to sunny with no rain for the next 10 days . I am going into Chorley Market this morning to buy some fresh produce you can’t from the supermarket. Will call in a talking tables as well not been for a while. Hope everyone has the best day they can .

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Morning all nice & sunny here with blue sky. Not a good start to today for me, woken at 4am with stomach cramps, followed by a full IBS flare up, spent over an hour in the bathroom, going very light headed & almost passing out. So scary now I’m on my own. Sitting having a coffee, feeling completely washed out. Hope every one has a better day than mine is currently.

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Tigger o really feel for you. I find it very frightening when some physical symptom - plenty to choose from - becomes acute and even worse in the night and completely alone. I hope that daytime brings more relief and some perspective: I’ve finally got washed and dressed and am about to take the dog out, hoping that will help to restore my equilibrium. Thinking of you. Rosie

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And wondering where you packed the thing you’re looking for! Good luck with it, hope all goes smoothly.

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It will be ok x

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Trouble is the ones you packed :joy:

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With @Heartbroken12 help you seem very organised. I hope everything run smoothly on moving day . Will you be nearer your family when you move back to wales.

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It’s not nice being ill especially when you’re on your own. I hope you improve during the day .

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