Thats just what i said today … that security they give you and knowing you are loved xx
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Same here … i said those very words today !! Xx
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Well the day is here and the tears flow, used to be such a lovely day. Frances is in heaven and is at peace. Cannot write anymore because of the tears. Big hugs to all
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Love to you Carl 2242. We understand.
Karen
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thinking of you xx
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Read a saying, sure fits me as I am sure many of you too:
Grief has 2 faces, one where you pretend everything is ok, and the other where silently your heart screams out in pain.
Peace and love, Karen
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Thats me exactly. 24 weeks today my husband has been gone. I miss him so much everything aches. Today especially on Valentine’s Day sitting alone in my house without him when we used to have joy filled days. No card no chocolate no being together. Im so miserable and sad. . I now have to contemplate going to my bed now where I can’t even fall asleep.
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I know … god bless ya… we sll the same love. Missing our beloved xxx not a good day to be reminded either is it ? Xxxx
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@Moi1 I understand your pain and anxiety about Valentines which means well in that it reminds folk to express their love for each other but it has gone too commercial for me along with other’days’.
However for my Heidi and I we had valentines most days with flowers and treats so perhaps whilst 14 Feb might rekindle old memories which are good it is also a very striking reminder of what we have lost!
This was yet another of my firsts and difficult though it was I got through it as I hope you did. Wishing you well not just from me but all of us in this community. X
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My Daughter came round yesterday with a beautiful bouquet of flowers and a jar of all different creme eggs for me for Valentine’s day. It was so lovely of her and i was fine until after she went and then just burst into tears.
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It’s a lovely gesture but as you say so sad at same time as you are still on your own without your person. I got my grown up son some chocolate but he didn’t reciprocate so I had nothing and I’m just feeling sorry for myself now. Im selfish to think of myself and am just sad.
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@Moi1
I think we are all entitled to be selfish and think of ourselves once in a while.
Hugs xxx
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Moi1
Definitely not selfish. I felt selfish for wishing my Mike had bought me the flowers and chocs. My Daughter was so excited. She didn’t get on with Mike. He wasnt her Dad.
Shes trying so hard to be understanding.
I saw a medium last night. I didn’t chose to i was supposed to be keeping a friend company but she backed out. It was actually amazing… im not a massive believer and very sceptical but she said things from Mike only we would know
Big hugs xx
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Same here, lve had 2 phone calls from hubby’s mum and sister since december. where is everybody?
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Aw how thoughful 
yeh everything makes me cry too xx
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Aw i know the feeling … im being ignored as well - my mum been really good in the last few weeks though when i rung her up in tears !, xxx
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I dont tell my mum anything as she feels the need to tell everyone from the postman to the chiropodist how “Im doing”. I just put on a front for her as its easier. I will never be the same person again. I know he would hate to see me like this and he would be sad to see me sad but I cant help it. My whole life without him has changed now and for the worst. Anyway, I shall keep writing and try to be less miserable but no promises.
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Yeh well i told my mum off for telling everyone ! She been ok since ! Wonder why they do that ? I know you feel awful when u let yourself go dont you but they definitely wouldnt want us to be sad i know but what can you fo if you are sad ? Not a lot is there ? X
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