Try take it easy, tackle things when your feeling stronger. There is no rush!
The tiredness may be because of grief, itās so draining isnāt it. Iāve had some really good sleep lately, I got some pills from the chemist and they knock me out about an hour after taking them. I think itās helping me emotionally, as Iām not as tired.
Yes the weather has been lovely, Iām crisping up nicely
Itās good to hear from you. Take care, sending a big warm hug xx
Hi Rose so glad youāve been able to get out in the sun. It makes you feel better even though you are extremely tired. I find coping with grief exhausting.
I too attempted some jobs in the garden the other day that normally my partner would have always done. It was upsetting but I think he would have been proud of me for having a go and the gutters are now cleaned out on the conservatory!! I wonāt be doing that again in a rush.
Try and take it easy until you are feeling stronger. Thereās very little that canāt wait. Iām sure your husband would have been full of admiration for you in tackling his jobs.
Sending big hugs xx
Yes Sundays are difficult and different for us , Nick died 12.20am on the 15/4/24 it was the Sunday that was the worse day ever , given hope them having to watch the life support being turned off , today June 30th is the anniversary of my Fathers death 8 years ago, my son and I are going to a pub down the road for a carvery lunch today just some Thing different x
Big hugs to you too . 10 weeks for me today. Sometimes it feels like yesterday and other days almost another lifetime.
Everything now is measured in before or after that horrendous day.
It is 17 weeks, or will be this afternoon.
So Sunday mornings I have memories of being with him and our life together and then come the afternoon, well you can imagine.
Reading your message reminded me that my dad also died on a Sunday. He was only 60 and it was also sudden and unexpected.
Itās crap isnāt it , on Tuesday a girl I worked with died in the hospice I can see the grounds from my window , she had terminal cancer she was also age 35 and has a 4 year old daughter , she knew it was going to happen but just wanted to be around for her daughter starting school in September , she wanted to do her daughters hair on her first day ! How can life be so cruel she was denied that desperate wish . My Nick always said that girl had balls of steel , the last time I saw Sophie was at Nicks funeral I couldnāt believe she came she hauled herself out of the wheelchair so she could hug me , it has now made me think of her partner , again in his 30ās and has 4 year old daughter to bring up without her mum , itās but me back to those first days the shock when it happened to Nick I was numb .
Sundays are just sad and the worst day for me, my Andrew died 11 weeks ago today. Iām so emotional today was just on tiktok crying at random videos that are not even sad
Always feel better after a good cry, I just canāt believe he has gone. Poor sod should be here with me. God I bloody miss him, I miss his love and hugs.
Sending lots of love, I hope your day isnāt completely filled with sorrow.xx
I think we may share the same date ? My husband died 15/4/24 but it was 12.20am early hours of the Monday morning they switched his life support off , it was the day before Sunday 14th April that was the hideous part , it doesnāt feel like 11 weeks , and the last time I ever counted anything in weeks was when pregnant! X
Nicks would always sit in the chair by the window , we would just about get a sea peep from that chair , his emoji cushion is still there, and it still makes me smile , last night I watched Glastonbury from that chair , he loved watching Glastonbury, but I didnāt think this year I would get the window seat ! X
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