Im in a very bad place

Hi like you i have been sobbing all day with so much going on in my head, it will be a week tomorrow night since i walked in to our house to see he had taken his own life. Sending you hugs xx

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Thatā€™s good you have gone away - I also did that after the funeral and it was difficult but gave a little bit of space from the memories in the house.
I do have family but they havenā€™t been very supportive . My oldest sister tries, but has her own issues to deal with and my mum and other siblings just want to avoid my distress. Yes I find this is so different from losing my dad - and of course our husbands have died before their time and when it wasnā€™t expected, leaving behind a trail of desolation that we have to now try and deal with.
Itā€™s so early for you and your daughter. Just take things a day at a time - it really is all you can do at the moment.
You will also still be in a bit of shock Iā€™m sure. Try look after one another and keep posting here. Itā€™s good to get those feelings out - I find it helps a bit.
Xx

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Thinking about you and sending hugs :hugs: for tomorrow :hugs:

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Thinking of you and sending hugs :hugs:

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Sending love and hugs to all. Being on this site helps me not to feel so alone. Sadly so many others are going through the same thing. We can support each other.

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Thinking of you.

I wish I could take away the pain.

Rose xx

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Rose Garden - thank you. Just need to get through today.
Sending lots of love and hugs :people_hugging:to everyone going through this heartbreaking time.

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Thinking of you today

Sending love and big hugs

Liz x x

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Awww Harriet there are so many things we have to go through and unfortunately we dont have a choice, this is a place none of us wanted to be part of but we wasnt given an option. My hope for us all is one day we will find peace. Xxx

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Liro - thank you so much :people_hugging:

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The cat is much better :crossed_fingers:t2::crossed_fingers:t2: and has eaten :smiley_cat:

A very relieved Rose xx

Being able to share my worries on here and getting such support means so very much to me xx

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Glad your cat is better. Xx

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Hooray, Iā€™m genuinely pleased for you Rose. :cat: Hopefully the start of a better day.

Big hugs :hugs: xx

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Brilliant news Rose such a weight of your mind . Xxx

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Thank you @Willow112 @jody @jevncute ,

I am so relieved.

He was so freaked out a couple of days ago and not eating.

He is more confident and definitely eating!

Thanking you for being here.

It means so much to me

Love,

Rose xx

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I had a dog that used to snap at bees and wasps. Sometimes her mouth was really swollen. It didnā€™t stop her though!
Xx

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I had a dog Tina who was once stung invthe throat omg how frightening was that. Thankfully she was ok after a trip to the vets. Xxx

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I think it might have been a sting or allergy x

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They can really worry us canā€™t they x

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Sure can just like our children do, they are part of the family .xxx

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