Meeting up would be good , as we have all sharing the same experience . I think we are all spread around the country
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Hello lm in Wales l lost my husband October 20th and really lossed without him we been together since we were 15 married 55 years and there is no groups around where lm living
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Would be great ti talk to people thatās going through the same thing because no-one else can understand exactly what we going through
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Exactly itās all done on line now
Iām in North Lincolnshire but my father was from Llanelli and my father in law from the Ronda
I live in mum in laws second house which was to be left to my husband when she passesā¦so now the two brother in laws want me out to sell it!! So unless provision will be made in mum in laws Will Iāve lost everythingā¦the brothers came round a week after my husband passed to serve me verbal notice! No compassion at allā¦so Iāve lost my husband and my home and il be leaving lovely neighbours and donāt know where il end upā¦Iām terrified and I need a place for my dogs to be with me
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I wonder how men feel as they are not so brave in expressing their feelings
To Everyone who has lost their Husbands, I am soooo very sorry for all your losses.
I dread the day I lose mine as he was born poorly and itās just got worse over time. If anyone wants to talk, im here for you all xx
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Iām so sorry, there similarities in my situation. My late partnerās estate is in probate now and I might have to move out of the house too. The stress is dreadful. Iām normally a strong person but now I have this terrible anxiety. I miss him so much. My heart is broken.
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Oh you are so lucky still to have him what i would give to have paul here with me especially today ir has been so hard today i have been in tears all day it is so hard treasure him and hold him close i would love to do that and to here his voice
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Hi whiskey 1
That sounds awful what your brothers have done to you and yes i can understand your feelings is your mother in law still with you , do not think all men are the same as there is men that have and show compasion yours are.just.being selfish and greedy hopefully you will be able to.find somewhere to.live if you need to remember men on here are giong threw the same as us they will have compassion for you not all men are the same my husband paul was a kind and caring man which is why i am struggling with it all at the moment
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My husband was so kind and caring to everyone yet his brothers are awful
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Hi Whisky
I am so sorry to hear whatās happening to you , I canāt imagine what youāre going through.Its hard enough losing your husband without having to go through that as well. When my husband passed away there was a lot of financial stuff to sort out . I found it overwhelming , my husbandās estate is also going through probate . I am pleased to say the house is safe .I hope everything works out for you .
Today is my husbands birthday, the first one without him, im a complete wreck today, canāt stop crying, ive been staying with family since Christmas day and now i dreading going home to an empty house, I canāt imagine being there alone, I dont know what to do or where to turn, family dont know what im going through, they dont understand at all, I canāt cope.
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Sorry your having a rough day , even family donāt understand how we are feeling .
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I know exactly what your going through my family are brilliant and was with my youngest daughter over Xmas and my oldest daughter in West Wales for the new year my son keep a look at the house he only lives up the roadā¦but l try and put on a brave face for them ut when l get home lm in a terrible something l think lm going to collapse
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Its terrible, i just canāt stop crying 
, i feel lost and lonely all over again its horrible
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Hi babycake
I know how it feels this has been a hard day for you every birthday ,anniversary will be hard you will never forget him at all as i never forget paul and it has been 5yrs for me and i still cry and feel lonely you can always talk on here as everybody on here knows how you feel dont be so hard on yourself and take care of yourself on here we are all friends in the same position
Sarah
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Thankyou so much, its good to talk to people who know how your feeling, its so hard , nothing will ever be the same, I sit snd think I just want my husband back, he was my rock and now im just so alone and feel helpless.
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Hi babycake
On here you are never alone never keep your tears in just let them out as it is not good to keep it bottled up i found out the hard way as i say i am 5yrs into this and have been hiding it from my brothers my youngest brother came to see me one sunday and i had not even got dressed or washed my hair i was a mess and i did not want to let him in but i did and he said to me you are not coping are you and he came in and cuddled me and listened to everything i had to say he now texts me everyweek when he is at work to see how i am i am grateful for that as it is something i have hid from them all this time so you see you are not on your own on here we are all lost and lonely and i can tell you all i want is paul back here with me take care of yourself and be kind to yourself none of us deserve this
Sarah
Ps you can always chat in here privatly with me if you want to i do not mind and we can have a cry together if you want