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What lovely words Helen. I am going to pass this on. The feathers that were moved before got moved again last night. My sister is staying with me for a few days and when we got up this morning the two feathers that were in my daughters Buddhas hands were right over the other side of the room, not together this time but on opposite sides of the room. We couldn’t believe it. It was my daughter letting me know that she had remembered my birthday. Amazing.
Michelle I will be lighting a candle in a minute for your lovely boy, and thinking of you and your family.
Much love
Deborah xx
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Beautiful Helen.
Xxxx
Hello Dear Kate,
Thank you for your kind reply, and deeply sorry for your loss.
The pain and the fact of there being no sign is devastating for me, to the extent of doubt and feeling lost. I hope to be able to endure this all bit by bit.
Sending love to you and your family too.
Hello dodo sorry for your loss . I know the pain unbearable , but we are all here for you . With love Maddie
Hello I am so so sorry for your loss , I know the pain is unbearable , but we are all here for you Please keep posting ,This is a wonderful site , And we are all here to get through our unbearable loss . With love Maddie x
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My love, it is so terribly hard to put one foot in front of the other. Even now, over the past few days, I have gone to bed crying because I miss Lisa so very much.
It takes such a long time and you can’t be rushed as grief is so very personal.
Friends here are always ready to listen, no matter how difficult the posts are. We have all endured the worst loss parent can ever experience.
Keep posting, we are all listening.
With love, Kate xxx
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Hello Dear Maddie
Thank you for your kind reply. It is here that I’ve met the most wonderful and kind people I’ve ever met.
Love
Firouzeh
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Hello Dear Kate
Thank you for your kind words. I’m deeply sorry for your loss, I keep trying…
Love
Firouzeh
Hello Firouzeh,
When they can they will show us that they are still here with us, they will communicate with you, look for the odd things the smallest of things, things you think…that’s a coincidence.
When they become spirit they have to learn all over again. I saw a medium called Marcus who otld me just like we have to learn they do also.
Be kind to yourself Firouzeh, grief is not easy…in fact it is the hardest road I have had to travel. Like all of us on here you too are a member of “the club” even though you like all of us didn’t want to be.
Keep posting we are all here for you.
With love
Helen
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Fiouzeh,
My son Sam died too of a brain tumour he was 34. Although it was detected he was living in Sweden with his wife at the time (she was Swedish) came home to tell me had another seizure and couldn’t go back. Like your daughter he had headaches towards the end, no pain and went into a coma. They did operate and we all had another 4 and a half years together but I always knew the day would come…how I coped at the time I will never know but I am sure I was given some strength from somewhere.
With love
Helen
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Thank you dear Helen for sharing your experience with me, despite the everlasting pain.
Your dear son is proud of you and I hope my beloved daughter will also be.
Love
Firouzeh
Hello dear Maddie,
Thank you for your kind words. You beautiful Moms are so kind. I’m trying hard.
Love
Firouzeh
My dear Firouzeh
Your daughter will be proud of you and will expect nothing less from you than your best to get through. It isn’t easy the pain is horrendous, only people who have experienced this kind of grief will know.
This site is wonderful because everyone one of us on here knows exactly the pain you are going through. We are all there with you. My Sam died on the 9th December 2016 and still my heart breaks it will never be mended because there’s a hole in it!! But over time the tears although they still flow they are further apart even though Sam is never out of my mind for even a day.
Keep going Firouzeh your daughter would expect that and your son and grandson also.
With love
Helen
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This is for all us mums on here:-
Lord make me a rainbow
and I’ll shine down on my mother
she’ll know I’m safe with you
when she stands under my colours
xxHelen
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Dear All,
I hope you are all managing okay. Maddie, it was lovely to meet up with you and John again. As you said, we have been brought together by our precious daughters. It would be lovely to have a bigger meet up. I am having a think about how we can arrange it.
Michelle, I was thinking especially of you and Matt yesterday and hope you got through the day okay.
Much love to everyone xxx
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Thankyou Victoria , good to see you both , it was a lovely day So sorry forgot to give you the candles back Will give them to you when we see you nextxx
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Dear Victoria and all,
Yesterday was very hard but family and friends made it very special and despite the weather we all met at the cemetery and had a toast to our dear boy I have just been up to arrange the flowers and have a little chat with him, thank you for thinking of us sending my love to all of you moms on this site
Love Michelle xxxx
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Dear Michelle , I know what a difficult day it must have been for you ,and I am so pleased you had family and friends to get you throug h it . I am sure you beautiful boy heard every word you said to him They are not far away I am so sure of that xxx
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Hello Michelle,
These special days are hard, they bring back all the memories all the love and all the memories we will never get to make, I am so proud of you and I know Matt will have been by your side and listening, …and if he is anything like Sam…he would be thinking “but I know all that already” keep going mum he would be saying.
Whenever we fall, can’t go on, there is always something that makes us get up and keep trying, for me that is Sam.
Love
Helen
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Thank you Maddie and Helen for your kind words, yes I know Matt is always by our sides he would end all his message’s 'family first family forever ’ so I know he will always be with us and keep sending signs, I will keep getting up and fighting in memory of my lovely boy and also for our girls who still need me so much, much love to all
Michelle xxxx
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