Loss of our son aged 27

Hi All, I saw this and thought of everyone here.
Take good care all,
Chris xx

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Lovely words, Chris and so true xxx

Beautiful words that speak the truth, xx

Hi Maddie,

We always go away as well to Cornwall a few days before the 9th and for a few days after with some friends. So I understand if you didnā€™t want to go to the party. We have always gone to Cornwall around that time of year as it is nice to be away from the house.

With love
Helen

I would like to go away for Gemmaā€™s anniversary in February, but always feel as though I need to stay close to Coren, my grandson, as it is the day day he lost his mummy. This February though I might suggest to Bill that we go away just afterwards then that will give me a change of scene xxx

Hi Victoria
I do understand, just a thought why not take Coren with you, that way you both get a change of scenery x

With love
Helen

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Hello just had some really sad news Johns niece has just had a major stroke she is 54 years old. It is touch and go . She is in the ICU the same place Dawn was , so I know how my dear sister in law must be feeling , as she is not even aloud to visit. We are all keeping our fingers crossed that the out come will be good . But at the moment I just canā€™t stop thinking about it . Itā€™s has bought all those awful memories back 2016. With love Maddie xx

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Oh Maddie,

What dreadful news, I hope she can pull through.
Love Helen

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Oh Maddie, such sad news ā€¦ I hope she is okay. Thinking of you all xxx

So sorry Maddieā€¦this year as been knock back after after knock back for you and itā€™s something you do not deserveā€¦we are all trying so hard to cope with the death of our children so to expect more is just cruel,
Thinking of you ,take careā€¦With love Marina xxx
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I hope that she pulls through Maddie. Thinking of you and your family xx

Thankyou all , what a year lost 2 sister in laws , some of our friends are waiting for ops , now this , . Thank god John and I are quite well . . I do try and look after him he is 83 years old now and he has always been fit . . I have to look after him , heā€™s all Iā€™ve got Maddie xx

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Bless you Maddieā€¦your husband is one lucky guy to have you. xxxx

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Yes he is and I am lucky to have him .xx

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Dear Maddie

Iā€™m so sorry about your nieceā€¦shocking news. Iā€™m praying fir you all.

Big hugs and love
Purple x

Thankyou so much , she is still very poorly , blood will not drain from her head , one doctor said there was nothing they could do , but thank fully one doctor came in and tried to save her . Xxxx

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Dear Michelle
Thank you for all your kind words, you donā€™t know how helpful I find them.
A woman came into my shop and told me she had lost her husband recently I was at the till and leaned over took her hand and told her I had lost my son, she held my hand tightly and asked how I coped, we had a wee moment of support. I hope it helped her to know she is not alone.
I also feel that sadness inside me and donā€™t look forward to things but Iā€™m having a few days in Manchester with a close friend. Iā€™m doing things I didnā€™t think possible but Iā€™m not happy and I donā€™t think I ever will be but all we all can do is take each day as it comes and try.
Anne xxxxx

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Dear Anne,
That was such a lovely thing you did for the lady who had lost her husband :heart: you have a very kind heart, I am glad you are getting away for a little break. You are so right we just have to keep trying and taking it one day at a time, you have come so far and Scott would be so proud of you, lovely to hear from you take care , much love Michelle xxx

Dear Maddie,
So sorry to hear about your neice I pray she will be okay, its like never ending sadness, what else can this life throw at you, take care
Love Michelle xxx

Hi Anne
I feel the same as you that I will never experience happiness again. Iā€™m glad you are going away with your friend, Scott would want you to have a nice time. Itā€™s my daughters birthday tomorrow and I have done nothing but cry all week. We had a big celebration last year as it was her 40th, she was so happy. She was normally tee total but she drank lots of champagne that day. I have some family coming over for a bbq but I donā€™t know how Iā€™m going to get through the day.
Love Deborah

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