I meant 19/3 but have now edited post.
Congratulations Debororah on the birth of your beautiful Grandaughter. Love to you and your family Maddiexx
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Dear Deborah,
Congratulations on the birth of your beautiful granddaughter 
what a lovely name and tribute to your dear Kathryn 
she will have been there with her sister keeping her safe 
I know what you mean about after the loss of a child how stressful it us when anything happens to any of our other children 
its also a reminder of how much our children here still need us sending you much love and thank you for sharing such happy news with us.
Love Michelle xxx
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Congratulations Deborah! How lovely to have a new baby in the family ā¦ she is beautiful 
Congratulations on the birth of your new Granddaughter, sheās beautiful. It must have been very stressful. You must be feeling very relieved.
Love Chris xx
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Wonderful news. Bless her little heart. Hope Mum is OK and not too sore.
Lots of love and hugs , Kate xxx
Hi Deborah
Thanks for lovely message.
I couldnāt survive without anti depressants, if I forget 1 day my stomach becomes anxious right away and Iām prone to tears.
I donāt honestly feel anyone truly cares, they feel bad for you but there is nothing they can really do, itās our living hell to deal with alone. I do have support with wonderful friends and Scottās friends but when Iām alone I go through it all over and over in my mind wishing he was just my wee boy again.
Yes I really would hate to lose touch with you and others on this site but you in particular as we lost our beautiful children so close to each other and are living through the same stages.
I think of you and still read what you wrote to a newly bereaved mother as it was so poignant and true.
Sending my love to you
Anne
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Congratulations Deborah on the birth of your beautiful little grandchild sheās adorable and such a lovely name in honour of your daughter,ā¦Take care Marina xxx
Hi Deborah
A new life shes beautiful .treasure her much love zoe xx
Deborah
Many congratulations on the birth of a precious granddaughter.
A light in the dark - she will bring you so much joy.
God bless you all.
Purple x
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Hi all
Everyday i try so hard .
Im so sad and broken .my heart hurts. This time last year me and sam was in the hospice to get his pain under control. During his four month illness .it was our time and i see him buck up .eat burger chips and icecream. The chef would make him anything he asked for . It was a very special place. But so hard because of covid . But they gave sam a garden room. So we could sit in the garden. Couple of the days was so warm and we sat chatting . I never thought a month later he would be gone. But looking back at photos i didnt reliaze at the time how thin he had got . Our children just didnt deserve it .just had his 25 th birthday even that was cruel giving him a birthday during his illness. I feel im never going to come to terms with it. I just want a chat and a sam cuddle its all wrong. The tears wont stop xxx
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Dear Zoe, I wish I could give you a big hug and I just feel for you so much. It seems very cruel and so hard to understand why these things happen to the best people.
I still have days when the pain is too much but those days are far less now. Memories pop back in to our heads to set us back.
We are all walking alongside you here. At times like these it doesnāt feel enough but we are with you every step of the way.
Big hugs to you xxx
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Thank you victoria .i know we dont really know each other .but it is such a comfort for your kind words .thank you so much .i would be lost without this site .big hugs to you xx
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Hi oh that is just so true.our precious children .big hugs victoria xxxx love zoe xxxx
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Big hugs to you too Zoe ā¦ I hope youāve had a good day
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I lost my 24 year old son to DLBC aggressive lymphoma. last month and it has turned my world around. I have no interest in anything, his face is always in front of me and always hear his conversation that I had with him when he was alive.I canāt sleep
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Dear Ghaz so sorry to hear of your loss. Those early days ate so horrendous. We walk around in a daze, shock and disbelief.
The pain is physical too.
You have come to the right place as all here know exactly what you are going through as we have all walked in your shoes. Nobody else can understand unless they too have lost a child. You can only take a minute at a time. Eventually we learn to live with our grief. The pain does ease but is always just a breath away. Donāt expect much of yourself, the way you feel each day changes at some point but itās very personal. Sending love and strength to you.
Kate xx
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Hi Anne
I have been thinking about trying anti depressants as I am still crying every day. I might make an appointment to see my GP. I know what you mean when you say that you donāt think anyone truly cares except the people on this site. I did have loads of support but that has dropped off now, even my family donāt contact me very much. Iām just left to cope on my own. I miss my daughter so much, especially at the moment as my other daughter has just had a baby and Kathryn would have loved to have been a part of that. My daughter said to me yesterday canāt you stop being sad and just be happy again, I wish I had a switch that could do just that.
Sending love and hugs
Deborah xx
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