jack will come to you dont worry about that when you least expect it x its what i cling on to, a visit or a cold draft or a butterfly anything i was hopin my Darrell was going to visit me today with it being my birthday he always made me feel as though i was the only person in the world x felt really sad and lonely today because i havent felt him around unless its becaise ive been so down today he couldnt get through x it just something im clinging on to x jo xx
Exactly !!
That made me laugh
Thank you
Romy xxxx
I’ve only dreamt of Mark once and then he was facing away from me .
I think about him all day every day so I think my brain is too tired to dream about anything in the night x
Jo - I am so sorry you felt low on your birthday!
Try to remember the good times you and Darrell had. I find it helps me to think how grateful and blessed I was to have Jack in my life. I still have his ashes in the house and I put candles close to it , also I have a little urn under his pillow in bed - these things help me to feel connected. Maybe create the things that connect you to Darrellll
Sadie xx
I have dreamed of Jack 3 times and all the times I tried to kissed him and he ignored me. Once I did feel a woosh of wind while all windows and doors were closed .
I would love to Jack as Sheila talks to Peter in her dreams
Sadie x
thanks Sadie i have Darrells ashes here at home to i kiss the urn in the morning and at night i have his pillow that a cling on to at night its rare that i go out i would rather stay in where i know every of his still is its where i always feel safe i had Darrells finger print taatoo on my arm i have kept everything there is no reason for me to let anything go everything has always had its place here i find comfort when our granddaughters come down to visit one of them maddy is only 3 and she said she was talking to Darrell (gangan) and he ask if she was ok and she said yes but mummy nani and uncle jacob (my daughter, me and my son) are really sad and she said he said tell them that i love them all she said he was happy and that he didnt have his mask on anymore which reall struck a chord with me as Darrell had to use a ventilator for the last 9 months to help him breath and at 3 years of age i honestly dont think she could make that up x
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Jo, what a wonderful experience you granddaughter had
Sadie x
yes i dont think a 3 year okd could make that up xx jo xx
hi peter is definitely with you he is getting you to remember happier times. the door banging means he is trying to get your attention and tell your something but only you will no what. have you looked on the internet about dreams sone of it is really interesting x love jo x
That is truly a wonderful experience, at 3 years old your granddaughter is still open to see and hear our loved ones in the spirit world. What a beautiful way for your husband to let you know he’s always here and is ok.
Blessings ☆
Hello jo
I read your post,my grandaughter hears my husband speak to her too,many times ,no little ones cannot make it up,as it is so true,your Darrell is around you all ,it is easier sometimes to speak to the little ones as they are receptive ,they don,t judge what they hear or question it .They just accept it xx
Robina thank you im glad that he is talking to her i know before she goes to bef every night with out fail she goes to her window looks dor a atar and says night gangan i love you see you in the morning x jo xx
day at a time x it is lovely isnt it when my granddaughter told my daughter my daughter startef to cry and maddy said its ok mummy gangan loves you and hes happy and he said hes ok x jo x
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Robina out of curiosity does your granddaughter tell you what your husband says to her aswel jo x
hi loney
that was one of my fear and it was darrells thats why we sorted out power of attorney we discussed everything darrell was to be looked after at home my myself with help from our son and daughter no one else and ive and same goes for . darrell had to go into hospital in may i stayed with him he was inly in a couple of days and he told the hospital that hef had enough and wanted to come home and if they said no he was going anyway they told him that because hed said that they would have to do a mental assessment on him darrell laughed looked at me and said you tell them i looked at the nurse and said ive got power of attorney and she said oh in that case we have no control at all its all down to you within 2 hours he was home darrell was mentally competent right to the end anyway but he turned to the nurse and said you are messing with the wrong people here . the level of care in the hospital each time he had been in was appalling and thats why i stayed with him and slept there i washed him PROPERLY i fed him and gave him all his meds ON TIMEx
how disgusting Darrell went ib to hospital 3 tines but not for ling each time as he made his views quite clear he did not want to be in there Darrells GP was an absolute waste of time as-well there was a certain medication he was on that he should of been checked on closely and he never did i am trying to sort a letter out to the gp as i want to know why this wasnt done and see which avenue i can go down i will fight until i get answers x did you make any complaints to the hospital via PALS x
Wow!!
i would love to go back to when Darrell was well and just show him how much i loved him we take so much for granted and now its to late x
Jo, as a friend said to me : Sadie you were not the perfect wife and at times did things that upset Jack but Jack wasn’t the perfect husband and at times did things that upset you but there was a lot of love and you both felt loved"
So I am sure Darrell knew you loved him!
Sadie x
Thank you Sadie x