Missing you ❤️

Really thats brilliant hes really good who is the lady medium you got appointment with xx

Is the fb spiritual group on a monday night with grant harris & zoe ?

No Saturday night with Izzy ? is there more groups ?

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Yeah every monday 8 oclock Grant Harris &Zoe on zoom all details on facebook if you google it best to log on about 7.30 and wait

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What’s the group called ?

Dear @Heartsand
“They want their old mum back. Id like her too xxx”

That’s exactly how I feel!!
Everyone (family and friends) want the old me back. I miss the old me too. I miss when my smile was real.
But sadly she’s gone, and won’t be coming back again. I’m stuck with the new me. And I don’t even like the new me very much.

I wish everyone else would realise the old me left the same moment my husband went - 2 years , 4 months , 2 weeks, 4 days ago. And she’s never coming back.

Love hugs and strength to you all :yellow_heart::hugs::pray:

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Dear Cathphill ,
Yes a lot of me died that day in August 2024.
Its very hard when someone youve been with for over 50 years dies suddenly.
But i do want to smile again and i hope i will .
My Martin would hate to see me like this

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Dear @Heartsand
Bless you. It’s so hard isn’t it.

My husband died August 24th 2022. 1 day before our 15th wedding anniversary. I now call those anniversaries one day apart,
‘Phil’s Day’ and ‘Our Day’

:yellow_heart::hugs::pray:

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Oh mine on 23rd augand our anniversary on 25th. X

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I’m the same if I mention my
Fiancé everyone changing the subject and makes it about them I haven’t had counselling as takes years but take medication which sends me to sleep it doesn’t
Block anything I remember it all he was only 51 I’ve never felt so alone he’s been gone 18 months but seems like yesterday I still listen to his radio shows to hear his voice he was a DJ everyone expect me to find someone else etc no chance I experience ptsd trauma never want to go through that again and I’m so sorry for your loss x hope 2025 is a nice year for everyone x

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@Heartsand
Oh my, so close 23rd and 24th August :disappointed_relieved:and we share an anniversary 25th :smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

You take care . It was always such a happy day our anniversary , my daughter and brother chose it for their anniversary.
And my husband died on our grandsons 6th birthday. Some hard dates ahead.
Lots of love xxxx

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I just feel like sometimes i am going to die from a broken heart. The pain is so intense however hard i try not to be sad. My children and grandchildren are trying so hard with me . Today i watched 3 of my grandchildren laughing in the snow and sledging. It was a delight and all I could think of was guilt that Im here to see them and my fun husband isnt. Its not fair. I miss him so . Love to you all x

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It will be 6 months since losing R on the 16th. The sadness engulfs me. I miss him so much. My heart is broken too. My world is lonely without him. Hugs x

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You’re so right, The world is a very big empty place without our loved ones. We miss them all more than we could ever have imagined. Nothing could ever prepare us for this torment. I’d say we’re all heartbroken, I certainly am, and often ask so many “Why’s” Why am I still here, why was Val taken from me, why can’t I see any future. Maybe if I could answer some of these I’d be able to cope better. Grief is such a huge thing with no time limits on how long it lasts or how intense it can be. I’d just like a little bit of peace and happiness back in my life but without Val its impossible to find

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George73 you have hit the nail on the head with the word torment. That’s exactly what it is a torment!

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I agree. Id just like to find a way through this knowing theres a ray of sunshine somewhere.
Dont know if its encouraged but if theres anyone in Leeds or Yorkshire maybe a few of us in this situation could meet up for lunch somewhere. Ignore if im speaking out of turn. Heartsand

It would be so nice to see a little bit of light at the end of this long tunnel .

I feel exactly the same lost my husband of 50 years three months ago i miss him so much every day is a struggle, i’ve two dogs so even though I don’t feel like it i have to get up and walk them. When i see other couples together laughing and talking it’s like a knife to my heart i am so envious of them, then i hate myself for begrudging others happiness.

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I feel exactly the same when i see couples of our age out. Im the only one in my circle of couples friends too and i cant at the moment visit them as a couple.
That adds to the sadness

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