Yes we will get through this together 
Take care everyone xx
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Please try taking one day at a time
Sending hugs and strength 
xx
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Ditto ditto xx
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I find it very hard taking one day at a time you can’t help but think off what the future holds because at the moment it looks pretty rubbish
I want to scream at the despair and the loneliness it’s like you are just dragging yourself along to get though must days I feel totally heart broken and it’s been 7 months will it ever get any easier
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I know exactly how you feel. Everything seems pointless and the future looks bleak, not that i can even think about a future without my husband. 
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I agree it’s hard taking one day at a time although I often find it helps to just focus on today and go with the flow and try not to think about tomorrow because I know it’ll only make me feel worse knowing it’s not going to be a better day than today so I might as well take it all in today- tomorrow is another matter when it comes. May not make much sense but seems to have helped so far - it’s been almost 13 months now 
This is the new normal for us all - sad and lonely life and we have no choice but to carry on the best we can
Take care xx
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The hardest part for me is getting out of bed in the morning, all that goes through my head is another long, lonely day without my husband, its so very hard and listening to others further along in this journey these feelings remain with you xxx
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It is hard getting out off bed in the morning thinking about what you can do all day and I’m finding the days longer and longer
Thinking of you x
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It would be so easy to roll over and stay in bed. So I force myself to get up, get washed and dressed and then try and get out every day. Even if its just to the local shops.
I can’t see a lot of point in anything really but I know somehow I’ve got to make a new life, one I didn’t want, I was quite happy with the old one. I owe it to my husband , he wanted me to carry on.
Its just so very hard, but somehow, someday I must do it.
Big hugs to everyone
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I can totally identify with all you said - being positive is the way forward 
Best wishes to everyone x
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Thankyou @Angel1309
The support and understanding on this forum is amazing.
Its certainly helping me. I know I’m not alone and what I’m feeling is normal
Love and hugs
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You’re very welcome @Liro we all here are in the same boat and we share and support one another through our sad and lonely journey. I don’t know how I would have been able to cope so far without this wonderful forum. So thank you all for sharing and reading - best wishes to everyone 
Sending love and hugs back 
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Bank holiday weekend started with a relaxing swim and tranquil yoga session in the morning - came the afternoon sadness and loneliness suddenly crept up on me now sitting on the bed feeling so empty dreading about tomorrow, Sunday and Monday knowing what’s to come - 3 more days of emptiness, sadness and loneliness. I hate this lonely life without my angel here by my side 
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Best wishes to all xx
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Hi @Angel1309
Yes, these days hit us hard.
Sorry, no two days the same, and weekends and nights are extremely hard. We can only keep ourselves busy and get through the days best we can
Take care
Lynne x
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Weekends can be so hard and long weekends even harder, I am struggling to get through any days this week as I haven’t been sleeping great !
This grief journey is a tough one to navigate for us all but we will survive because our husband’s would want us too !
Hang in there everyone and we will get through this with each other’s help xxx
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Sending a big hug x
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Hi All,
Loving the support and care everyone gives each other.
Thinking of you all this bank holiday.
Take care and big hugs. Xx
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Hi Lynne, yes we can only try our best I agree - hard but we have no choice sadly.
Take good care xx
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I haven’t been sleeping well either and constantly thinking about him missing him so badly . It’s comforting to think that our beloved would want us to carry on and I have promised myself to try carrying on living for both of us the way we used to.
Thank you for your kind words xx
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Big hugs to everyone xx:hugs:
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