Life is so hard the emptiness the lonilness nights are the worst. I hate thecempty house everything seems pointless. Xxx
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Sometimes I feel I’m doing ok then suddenly something overwhelms me and I’m so low and dispirited, sobbing and shaking. It’s too hard to cope with.
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I know that feeling Wooly I just wish we could turn back time. Xxx
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This is so true just have to hope that things will get better but I seem to be feeling worse as time goes on and family don’t bother with you anymore
Send hugs x
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Mine never have, i am very much alone in this the days are long but the nights are a all lot longer. My phone doesn’t ring anymore. Its so quiet. Xxx
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Hi,
I know how you feel, being retired as I am every day is the same and living alone I just detest it, it is so lonely most of the time ! All you can do is think of your loved one and get emotional when there is nothing else to distract you . Only so much housework you can do, I do try to go out even just for a walk & fresh air but some days you can’t even be bothered with that.
I hope tomorrow will be a better day for us all, fingers crossed !
Take care and always look after yourself xxx
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So familiar, being alone, the silence and the sudden downward change in mood and confidence.
Love and hugs everyone,
Rose xx
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Yes if only we had the power to go back in time and hug our loved ones just one more time xxx
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I spend my time watching GBN news cause I just don’t have the patience to watch dramas most of the time, the most I watch are the soaps cause they’re only on for 30 mins most if the time !
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Me neither xxx
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Yes the silence is the worst xxx
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I have the tv goi g cant tell you what anything is about.xxx
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I think of that so many times , just want to hug him and him hug me , its so hard . Bad day today 
, so lonely and lost without my dalin.
Never thought it would be so hard .
Love 
to all on this long lonely road without our loved ones 
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Aww Carly i know that pain. There is no where to hide no comfort from anything. I try each daycto do something but my mind wont let me concentrate on out.
Like yourself i never thought it was going to be this hard.
My hope is one day we will all find happiness ofcsome sort. Xxx
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It is a living nightmare , but yes thats what I keep hoping for as well, some happiness before we leave this world . Xo
Hi Lynne Thank you for your kind support. I am so sorry that you had a sad day the day before too! Isn’t it so depressing not to speak to anyone for the whole day - exactly how I felt yesterday. Glad to hear you had a better day out with your aunt. Family and friends are what we need at a time like this.
I was at the office today surrounded by lovely colleagues and that helped so much, and tomorrow, so looking forward to going in another day in the office 
I hope you have a peaceful and restful night.
Sending love and enormous hugs 
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Yes the loneliness and the silence is hard to bear and now that our love ones are not here there is so much time and not enough to do to fill the day sadly. I totally understand what you are going through each day as I find myself suddenly feel sad and empty as soon as my work is done, so I constantly look for things to do but unfortunately there’s never enough to do to fill each day.
Today I stumbled across an article on a website saying ‘embrace solitude and not loneliness’ I think it makes so much sense - I will bear that in mind and try to remind myself everyday when I feel lonely.
Sending love and hugs
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Thank you & sending love and enormous hugs back to you
Hi Georgi, I feel so empty and lonely when I am not working so, yes I totally understand how you must feel every day, I am sorry life is cruel to us all who are left behind . There used to be so much to do when both of us were together and now, without him, there is far too much time and not enough to do - so empty and lonely.
Yes, fingers crossed tomorrow will be a better day for everyone 
love and hugs xxx
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