Yes grief will hit
You when least expected as grief is love with no place to go xx
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Very true 
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It hits you at anytime 
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It’s cruel - I hate this life without my angel 
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So do I it’s very cruel each day gets harder to deal with
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It is…life without him just has no purpose…just float along each day…meaningless 
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So many things have gone wrong since he went it isn’t easy is it
Yes, thats exactly how most of us feel on here, it’s so hard, I knew it was going to be but I think I convinced myself it might get easier to bear but no thats not happening, and I don’t think it ever will, so will just have to live with it xxx
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Not at all. I feel constantly overwhelmed at every turn - wish he was here beside me 24/7
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I do hope it will get better over time or maybe not but we will just get used to it after a long while (years and years)…it’s the new normal sadly
Take care everyone x
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So do I Angel I truly do , I hope we find some peace some sort of happiness. Hugs Jo xxx
Do do I at least a little bit easier
Sending big hugs x
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Big hugs 
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Big hugs to you too x
At a loose end on Sunday so I went to see the film ‘It ends with us’. I never cry at a movie but to my shock and surprise, I cried almost all the way through watching it! Grief heightens all kinds of emotion, doesn’t it? It magnifies everything, whether it be sadness, stress, anger…you feel 100 times worse than you normally would…sadly!
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Hya Angel it sure does, i swing from one mood to another. Tears fall fast, thevheartache is horrendous. Hugs Jo xxx
@Angel1309 sorry that you got upset at the cinema. Read the books, the other one is It Starts With Us. It all turns out OK in the end. Books are always so much better than films.
It would be nice if our lives could be rewritten.
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Angel1309, I start each day with good intentions but find myself drifting off in my mind and before I know it the morning is gone, then it’s teatime! Poor dog gets his walks each day but that’s about all I do. I’ve tried buckling down to admin that needs doing but just can’t concentrate. My husband would be so cross with me for my attitude but without him (11 months now) I wonder what the point of it all really is. The way the country is going is there any point trying to anymore?
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I miss my husband everyday I look for him and he’s not there
It’s been 43 weeks next week we would off been married for 43 years I struggle every day one way or another sometimes I think I’m in a horrible nightmare and will wake up and he will be back with me
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Hi Jevncute, so comforting to know we all here really understand what everyone is going through - other people won’t even know what we are talking about!
Big hugs xxx
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