I totally agree. Nothing makes any sense. All the best people get taken first. And the worst people seem to rise to the top and get into power…
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Thank you for the invitation, Reena.
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I think the free Zoom sessions are only 40 minutes long?
Yes that’s why I will send another 30 mins
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Let me know when you have received your invites. Ali your email is not working. Please resend to me. Thanks
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Both received. Many thanks.
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I had visitors over for lunch today. It was very kind of them to come, but I’m afraid I couldn’t hold much of a conversation with them, as I was constantly thinking of my Simon. When they left, I sat down and cried, and I have been sobbing on and off since. I can’t come to terms with the fact that we’ll never see him again.
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Oh lovely… I get you and I think we are going to be like this for a long time. We ve cried this evening just thinking of my boy being on his own. So so sad and tragic … sending you hugs xx
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I’ve cried for hours tonight 
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ReenaH
I’ve just private messaged you my email address.
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Hi its 9 weeks for me, i have my son here with me i cuddle the urn and talk to him pictures in every room. I just cant believe i wont see him again, every day is a struggle, waves of tears flood in. I feel lost and afraid without him. My whole world just fell apart when he fell asleep. Sometimes i feel i am going crazy
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Your not going crazy grief is awful, it’s six months since I lost my son and the waves iof grief are horrible. I very occasionally get glimpses of feeling ok but then it washes over me again. I think in time these glimpses will become longer but I think we’ll grieve for the rest of our lives. We aren’t supposed to lose our children. You will find comfort here as we are all in the same boat x
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You do feel as if you are only one gojng through this but reading on here you know you’re not. It all just feels like a nightmare i want to wake up from though
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Mum89
It’s 12 weeks since I lost my beautiful Lauren.
Every day i feel like I’m waking into a nightmare.
I miss her so much and cry every day.
Today I had my first glimpse of a future. For 1 hour I had a conversation that didn’t make me cry or wail until the wave of grief came and threw me back into a drowning sea of tears.
Hugs to you and all the grieving parents
Xxx
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Sorry to hear about your son mum89. It’s 9 weeks today for my son too. Feels like yesterday we were talking and he was planning his trip… and it’s all the should haves and if I could just turn the clock back and redo things differently. Inside I just blame myself. The pain we are all going through is just unbelievable and unbearable. Sending you all all hugs xx
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The thing is, with almost other situation in life, you can make changes, whether it be a bad marriage, a job or a house you don’t like or friends you don’t get on with any more. All these things can be changed. So it’s a shock to realise that in this one instance there is absolutely nothing you can do about it. Death is so bl–dy final. And yet here I am, still trying to magically wish my son back into existence.
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Thank you all for your comforting words my heart goes out to you guys too. Its said there is a reason for everything but im yet to kniw the reason my wonderful son fell asleep like he did.
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I don’t often post but do read all your comments and it is good to know I am not alone in my struggle - so thanks from me too (my 28 year old son died from a brain tumour 28th Oct 24). We loved him so much, he truly was the kindest, bravest person. Diagnosed Jan 22 - we all knew rhis was likely to go one way, but fought on with love and hope. Xxxxx
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Sending you a hug x
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Would love to actually speak to some of you think it would help to hear an actual voice? X
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