I’m sorry things didn’t work……
if you’re not on the same page then it wasn’t either right for both of you or just not the right time……
Please don’t let this feel negative, take a positive from it, maybe this has given you more strength and stronger for the future…. Whichever way this turns out…. Good luck x
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I,ve had to tell a couple of people me and sue knew to leave me alone as I dont want anyone else. I can’t face the thought of being with anyone else
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I think we all need to do what it takes for us to get through life and everyone is different. Good luck. No one should judge until they have been through the same thing and remember everyyone copes in different ways.
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They may not be beside us but they are still in our hearts
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1000% to that 
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Got it. I did not read till the end… thanks.
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Got what ? Sorry lost the thread you were talking about ? Xx
Agree no judgement as you say need to do what’s best to get through this terrible journey x
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The relationship did not work out, and that was what you were reminding me about. So much later when I visited this time, I realized that I jumped the gun to suggest that the OP goes with the flow, when in fact it was already not working out… Thanks for your cue. 
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Aw … glad i helped but some people can be very complicated i have found. What you see is not always what you get … sadly. Its a shame human beings are so complicated and im sure they have got more so ? My husband was so straight forward. I dunno about you but i find this new world we are in so hard to navigate … its exhausting some days - had a nice day yesterday back down to earth today with the crap life without our husbands 
xx
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Been out with my daughter aderlaide to a local bikers cafe to drop some fliers for the freetrikers rally in July this year.had someone ask me out but then told me that my bikes had to go and the beard and long hair had to go as well.my answer was no chance at all.just confirmed that I don’t want anyone else. This lady worked for a haulage company on the airfield.
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Wow … you get asked out a lot you do ? Lol … but they cant do that expect u to change your whole personality ? How ridiculous ! She not right person for you anyway by sounds of it … silly woman … you did well to keep it polite ! X
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Deb5.a lot of our friends are worried about me being on my own and they are beginning to realise that I,m not interested at all. But some of them wont take no for answer.so hopefully they will get the point now x
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I think I would except anything at the moment, just a friend to meet for a coffee and a chat would be helpful right now. We can’t do this alone!
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Yeh i agree … friends are very .important at a time like this … x
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Exactly what i was thinking. Meeting someone of the opposite sex doesnt have to mean romance but its just nice to talk . It wont take the pain away but it helps you forget even for a little while
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i find it quite easy tbh, i have no friends any more so being on my own i like to an extent. no man will ever get his feet anywhere near my door or table again, not interested
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I agree, it’s nice to have girlfriends, equally nice to have a male friend, someone to chat to or maybe go out for dinner with… it doesn’t have to be intimate or romantic…. We all need a friend from time to time, be it female or male x
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Your husband would have wanted you to carry on living and find happiness and companionship again. My husband told me he hoped I would find someone else to share my life, it’s too soon for me, but maybe one day
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Yeh so did my husband - he said you will find someone else bless him for a long time i didnt want anybody else but now i can see it would be a good idea … only problem is i cant find anyone … got a male friend sort of. but thats it - nothing else. Not as easy as you might think !! Is anything these days ? X
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