I have a pillow with his face on it. So I can cuddle and kiss him.
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I have just reached 1 year last week. I cant believe I have lived without John for so long. Yes , grief just hits you when you dont expect it. I still miss him so much and am trying to get on with a life on my own. But some days it is so hard.
I am suffering from nerve problems at the moment and no-one here to help me or to talk too.
Got to have cortisone injection on 7th Nov and cant drive and got to have someone with me. A friend is coming with me but I want John there really.
I believe someone lives in Norwich now.
I lived there for 34 yrs before moving to Suffolk, Bury St Edmunds. Have good memories. Perhaps we could meet sometime.
Love to you all and look after yourselves xx
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Aw … i agree with all your sentiments … just over 10 months for me and @Hazel.1966 who lives in norwich btw. It takes its toll doesnt it this grief ? Im missing him so much being with me at the moment 
xxx
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This is not how I remember him but how he would like to be remembered. He was a full time trade union official, and here he is working on behalf of his members.
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With regard to the picture of my husband Grahame, he was well known in the Chester area for his union work. If anyone remembers him it would be lovely to hear from you via this thread.
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It is nine months today and even Heaven sheds tears. I love you and miss you so much. I won’t put a candle on the window but the little battery-operated reindeer I always put up during December to cheer my husband up coming home.
Sending love and hugs to everyone.
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PollyjaneW are you still on this forum ?
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Morning i too wonder about polly jane ,rammie,dotty,loneley,and others ive forgotten their names but do wonder how they are all doing xxx
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Hi ladies
So sorry. I’m ok I have had to change my password. It’s been a tough few months so also took some time out. after losing Bry, fell & broke my hip & had to have full hip replacement, a week after being home , I lost my mum . You couldn’t write it . Hope you are both ok 
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I am sorry , well I’m back now anyway hope you are ok xx
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Oh no !! A hip replacement ! Flipping heck. Hope you’re ok. Good to hear you are on the mend ! If it doesnt rain it pours hey !! Xxx
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Hi nice to hear from you but sorry for your loss and a hip replacement its been neverending for you but glad youve been in touch xxx
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My baby girl. Karen (MrsP)
All very relevant to me atm. Trying to make a in memory video but there’s over 2300 pictures all meaningful. Loved life loved singing, no one could ever tell/ask Karen to slow down. Donated 10 years in volunteering, crazy beautiful unique 
of my life.
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@Diadhuit Hello mate sorry for your loss. I am in a very similar situation, my wife passed away 6 days after giving birth to our son. She was only 42 and had a brain bleed out of nowhere. I have read some of your posts let me know if you want to chat sometimes, I am 3 months in this Saturday.
Below a photo of our wedding day, been together 6 years but married only for 2 and tomorrow would be our second anniversary.
The baby is the only reasons to show up and be alive. I don’t know what I would do without him.
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So sorry to read about your poor mum , as well as your horrible accident. I have just passed the first anniversary of my loss and it’s as if it happened yesterday. I don’t think anyone on here ever really recovers after losing their loves do they ? Take care x
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My handsome man , Baz. We fell in love in 1982 and this is how he looked when love hit us both at first sight. How I wish these days could come back . Heartbreaking to think he’s gone for ever and my life , too is over 
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I lost my husband a month before you exactly … 16th december 2022 … xxx
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Awful isn’t it - can’t believe he’s really gone 
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