Still Struggling

Big news today is I been awarded pip!

Excellent news!

Me and mags are trustworthy! Iā€™m glad you have been awarded pip, just a shame it has taken so long

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I know you canā€™t do it right now but sometimes you can find other like-minded people as volunteers. Doing whatever, outside with a wildlife trust, helping in a charity shop or whatever. You can find decent people who are trying to help others and find it helps you too. Some volunteering can even be done online. We have people helping at events or just behind the scenes. Even just the odd hour or two would mean you are in contact with others. And if you dont like it you donā€™t have to stay! Just an idea for when you are better.

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Yes, but should be backdated from date of claim.

I still got a sizeable way to go, I also still got that hernia to deal with too. I will eventually get there baby step by baby step.

That should go some way to replace some of your mumā€™s money that you have had to use

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Should help with the Council Tax thatā€™s for sure!

Oh, wonā€™t they be pleased to get their hands on your money!!

Without a doubt

My Council Tax has built up over this year, made another payment of Ā£222 to keep them off my back. Obviously pip will help when I receive the back payments. Have a consultation with my doctor on Monday most likely about the Stem Cell Transplant process. Will pop into Maggieā€™s same day to thank them for the help they have given me regards pip. They have been brilliant in helping me through Myeloma. Saw a short film late last night about a Black belt 6th Dan tutor in martial arts. Never been in hospital for as anything as you would expect. He was feeling tired fatigue etc. Then the news came he had Myeloma Cancer. This disease can strike anyone without warning, itā€™s just a cruel twist of life but also a challenge. Life is a challenge in itself, no one has a free get out of jail card regards their health. But itā€™s how you tackle and deal with it. I donā€™t believe in random stuff this is maybe a sign to prove my capability of dealing with it. I see a lot of post on here and Iā€™m like seriously ? the year since mum passed has been rough and when I reflect I think a lot of people would of buckled under the strain. I just kept going at first I wasnā€™t sure if it was a sign that I would be joining mum up there. Obviously I would of liked that as I would have got the love and support from her. Not had much luck with woman and I donā€™t trust the internet in this department, itā€™s a minefield of e commerce out to make money and giving 0 back, so Iā€™m wary. Besides Iā€™m not in a position to think too much about that at the moment as my health comes first.

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Youre doing really well as you are. One step at a time.

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My heart breaks for you, being alone must be so difficult. Are there any groups you could join in your area? Some towns have groups where people walk and chat or knit and natter. If you are on Facebook you might be able to find groups in your area. Being alone leaves you stranded with your thoughts and itā€™s awful at times. I hope someone reads your post and gives you some good advice x

I belong a Myeloma group at Maggies,. I have multiple problems besides loss of my mum. Today not been bad, doing stuff etc and I always have music on non stop all day from the minute I get up. Music is my companion.

Had the Hickman line did on Thursday gone.

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Did that all go ok? Havenā€™t forgotten about you. A week on Monday for your treatment?

Iā€™m looking at mid December for high dosage of chemo

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They are sending in thing guns, Hickman line will make transfusions so much better

Just want to get it over with now, but not due into hospital till December might be mid December.

Time is going so fast itā€™s not all that far away. They will look after you and make sure you are comfortable