It’s this country it’s getting worse not better. I will appeal against it and ask for legal documents. I seen a lot of very negative depressing stuff on Tik Tok today regards government. It just feels the whole world is against you I think.
It’s hard enough losing a pearent and then being diagnosed with Myeloma Cancer. I think you think what’s the point ? there’s no point to living no more, I be better off with mum. At least I be free from it all!
It’s not getting better put it that way, this government and previous ones have a lot to answer for. Mental health is through the roof now all age groups are affected, but no extra support, population growing. Sometimes ignorance is bliss haha
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I agree there, I think it be better for us mentally and physically if we lived the rest of our life’s on a desert island in the Pacific.
Haha so true, totally unaware of what’s going on anywhere, suppose that’s why kids are so happy no worries or understanding of the world
The world is full of people, organizations that want to harm us, we just don’t realize how protected we are with our parents. When you are on your own you realize the true ugliness of the world.
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The council wants a fight with me ? they get a war! I been thinking what I’m going to say to those corrupt losers and it’s not going to be pleasant.
You never win with people like that, but I’d ruffle a few feathers though in the meantime, no one should be scared to speak the truth
I canceled my Labour membership today and ripped up my card. I been given a few housing associations in Scotland. I’m seriously worried about the council taking my mum’s money if I stay here in Nottingham. I wrote a letter but haven’t posted yet. Had a run in with a warden earlier I won’t put here what I said to him. But I am dealing with a criminal council and I need leave here before things get worse for me. I finished writing my aunty in Oz which means something to me. I also plan on writing to Lee Anderson. It’s not over yet by a long shot.
I can understand you not wanting them getting their grubby hands on mams money, it’s awful really. I just think in time of grief you prob got wrong advice regards declaring it. I know people will say you have to declare everything but when politicians and everyone else do then why should the people who need it more.
Sometimes it’s best to start from scratch get away make a new life new place
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I will do something another day I spent 2,3 hours typing to my aunty earlier in and it can get overwhelming. Not only that but it felt like I was reliving the train wreck of my life at the moment. I was in a difficult position I needed help from Maggie’s with the pip form so I really was at their mercy at the time. I couldn’t have filled the pip form on my own, they are so worded against you to stop you from claiming in the first place. Don’t know if you know Labour are giving the DWP the powers to check 20 banks in the UK for savings over what you are allowed for UC. Maybe it’s a cleansing of the UK population money comes first over health.
Think we’ve all been in a train wreck on here, in one way or another. My dad has family in Lincolnshire but fell out with them years ago, when he died mam didn’t want any of his sisters knowing which I couldn’t blame her, but families are strange ain’t they it’s true you can choose friends !
I’ll never have huge amounts in the bank anyway but if ever that changed there’s no way I’d put it in bank much rather hide cash in house, they shouldn’t even have them powers to do that, the sly crafty things they get up too
Well we know Labour have blown stupid bringing to an end the strikes. That’s why the country in a mess, but they won’t admit to it. No difference to the opposition there. I read my aunty letter again, she does care about me. But just too far away. I got her letter Wednesday and she wrote it on New Year’s Eve. Sent me some to have a drink, but not sure I will or not. Governments, Councils will fleece me dry. Money first people irreverent. Thinkingaybe I should get a rough idea from my doctor how long I have left. Don’t know how to approach it or living my be torture. It’s been a bit of a teary day today and that’s because of the council letter on Wednesday, it’s playing on my mind as I don’t trust them.
Would be nice if you could visit her at some point, do doctors tell you things like that ? I suppose if terminal yours isn’t is it ?
That’s why it’s nice to vent on here there is always someone to listen
Saying that it seems no one else is joining in here haha, good job I’m a gobshite that’s all I can say. I get that part from my dad he used to say I could talk under water !! We all get really sad days though I’ve learnt over these past two years more about myself than I ever knew, I’m not afraid to be on my own anymore. But I never really think I am anyway, strange thing happened this morning noticed things had been moved very odd
Let’s hope our parents haven’t left us. There’s no cure for Myeloma Cancer, you just have to live with it. At least the sun out here today, sometimes you just don’t want to wake up from one day to the next. I didn’t eat yesterday, didn’t feel like it.
Only problem with visiting my aunty is I probably wouldn’t want to come back. I feel the hospital just dealing with Myeloma the only problem with that is other things intertwine in your life which effects how you feel about life and Myeloma. If your parents have visited you from the other side, I wouldn’t worry. I saw something on the free view channel blaze last night. Paranormal short videos one was taken by a sister who had lost her brother recently. This spoon started to move on its own only the sister in the kitchen filmed it on her phone, no one near the spoon. My mum told me she loved me I know she wouldn’t hurt me and if she did appear I would want to hug her. Maybe when you feel stronger within yourself maybe you might want to look into a spiritual church or group on Facebook. They would be able to help you, I would keep a open mind and don’t be afraid. Just read free gear Kier could be facing a revolt from his back benches , they not happy with him at all
I think I’d pass out if stuff started moving on own, I will eventually get back to spiritualist church.
I’d say go for it worse places to live that’s for sure, you just have to try remain positive life throws these crap obstacles in the way.
I’d said if anyone ousts him it will be his own they don’t want someone leading who’s so unlikeable. Horrible man
I would like to see a sign from mum I’m not afraid. Mum wouldn’t hurt me in spirit I know that. I’m having a torrid time since mum passed away. It’s hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel at the moment. This government is going to far due to their own negligence. I want to email MPs regarding the council! I think we seeing just how thick some people are within the Labour Party, it’s quite shocking. I don’t think anyone expected this.
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1 bit of good news is the government wanted to give powers to the dwp to get information regarding their customers. Obviously it’s a raid by government to claw where ever they can. Because they gave too much money to the trade unions ending the strikes. Now they bankrupted the country, the banks have refused to supply the dwp with info. I need to think what I’m going to do going forward and wether risk it and apply for UC. Or take money out so I fall under the threshold of savings.
Well that’s good news good the banks have stood their ground too. I don’t think you ever don’t miss your mam especially if you were really close like you obviously were.
It seems like another lifetime for me where my family were here, it’s really sad to remember us all in mams kitchen and now I’m only one left, it’s just trying not too think too much about that life because it’s gone, try to focus on my life now I’m lucky ive 4 sons and two grandchildren, but doesn’t stop the empty feeling of loss.