I agree x.
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Very true words I totally agree x
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Omg - sheâs right do not contact her again. Not because youâre not in a couple but because she doesnât deserve you! A true friend would never make you feel like this, move on from her not your husband. You have every right to speak about him as much as you like. I cannot believe this lady can be so insensitive. Sending you a great big hug xxx
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How can people insensitive do they really think about what they. After my loss the worst one was âyouâre lucky I wish my wife was dead â unbelievable. Ride above the insensitive people every one
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That is truly awful - love to you always. I feel particularly grief stricken today wall these comments are really sad and unnecessary xxx
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@Charm do not let these comments pull your day down more we are here to pick you back up. sending love and hugs. Our community is stronger than these comments.
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That truely is an evil thing to say. Some people are incredible arenât they? Apart from my family, I find this community the most comforting place to be. Love and cuddles to you all. Jean
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Well said @Nix
I intend to talk about my husband for the rest of my life. He is so much a part of me why wouldnât I?
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@Kwent 
what a truly awful thing to say.
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Just a really bad day for me xxx
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Iâm so sorry youâre having a hard day, @Charm. Is it all the horrible comments youâre reading or has something else triggered your pain apart from the obvious? Iâm not prying but I find it helpful to talk about my triggers and you can bet someone else on here has experienced something similar. I hope you can do something today that will bring you a little peace. Big cuddle for you. Jean x.
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No I a stayed with my brother and his children for a few days and I guess I held my strong emotions in. I felt sick before I went and just wanted to be near my husband. I usually visit him once or twice a day so it was a huge wrench for me.
We did everything together and I was in panic mode from last night and I woke up crying. I cried all morning and down at green site. The lady who manages is usually there and understands. My arthritis is really playing up and I had an injection in my hip last week which takes 2or 3 weeks to kick so that hasnât helped. I missed going to the site and it had made me so emotional. I just want to be with him. I am red, teary and blotchy - not great and I always used to look alright. Now everything seems so pointless without my soulmate xxx
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Thank you Jean8 for caring. Xxx
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Me too Charm x
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Youâre more than welcome. I just wish we could all have some peace from these awful feelings. The worst thing is just not being able to get away from it xx.
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I wouldnât exactly call her âFriendâ after those comments. Whether she means well or not tact and diplomacy isnât her strong point.
Getting out and finding someone new is the last thing on my mind whether my husband would have wanted that or not. And Iâll wallow as much as I like.
Do what you feel is right for you not her and do it at your own pace.
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@charm (and everyone else) great big group hug, weâll help each other threw the most heartbreaking time of our lives. Personally thank you all for being there xxx
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Thank you sweetheart xxx
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No and there is nothing really that anyone can do to help you feel better - the one thing we need is not going to happen. This is not the life that we envisaged and goodness knows how we ask cope with this dreadful reality xxx
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Love to you too xxx
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